Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Id rather be outcome independent and just get on with my life, if I was OP. That way her drama doesn't even come into your life, your frame is solid and - well - you can just do what you want to do.skinnyguy said:
^^ I agree with this actually. A very brief non butt hurt text THEN go NC. Best of both worlds.Bible_Belt said:
She was mad because she thought you where treating her like $hit, from not telling her. She didn't want to just feel like some s1ut you bang out. She wanted a stronger position in your life. Like I said, this could've been one of the reasons she had to talk.mikey90 said:
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
That's why my approach works. I've been in both situations where it's the "I want to dump you in person" speech, and the "this irrelevant thing is bothering me" speech. Throwing the "are you done with me" question at her causes emotional fluctuation which works in your favour. If she asks about why you said it, just let her know that you don't want to waste any time if her interest drops. Doing this actually puts you in the position of power because it lets her know that you could drop her like a smelly old hat and move on.Fela Kuti said:
