Girlfriend of year and a half wants to take the next step.

[Red Legg]

I've been having all those benefits with my gf ever since she started dating me at age 22. Why would I trade that in for someone who's in their 30s or 40s?

Just because a woman is younger, it doesn't mean she doesn't have her 5hit together.

I am not suggesting you date an older woman now by any means,but once you get 48 or 58 younger women will branch swing in my opinion everytime to a younger stud and ghost an old guys ass,look at the examples in Hollywood there are many of them they can't help their natures.but maybe you can pull another 22 year old when you are 60 with some killer grandpa game.

 

[Spaz]

Female perspective: if she wants marriage and kids she won't wait around. She biologically can't.

If she becomes sweeter, more agreeable, and the sex becomes more frequent, that's not because she loves you more sorry to say. It's most likely because she's buttering you up to try to change your mind.

Women are the masters of changing a guy's mind and making it look like the guy made the decision to change. We invented that game so I'm not trying to scare you but you put it out there that you don't want those things anytime soon and if she really wants marriage and kids in the next 8 years and you don't, she will find a way to get what she wants with or without you so take what she said with a grain of salt and be mindful.

Most men would do good to understand this applies not only to children but to anything else a women wants.

 

[Spaz]

I am not suggesting you date an older woman now by any means,but once you get 48 or 58 younger women will branch swing in my opinion everytime to a younger stud and ghost an old guys ass,look at the examples in Hollywood there are many of them they can't help their natures.but maybe you can pull another 22 year old when you are 60 with some killer grandpa game.

I know an actual grandpa(a customer) who continues to pull university students.

Out of curiosity I've asked him how he manages to game young women, claims it all abt his voice and mostly being present at the moment.

 

[stovepipe]

I am not suggesting you date an older woman now by any means,but once you get 48 or 58 younger women will branch swing in my opinion everytime to a younger stud and ghost an old guys ass,look at the examples in Hollywood there are many of them they can't help their natures.but maybe you can pull another 22 year old when you are 60 with some killer grandpa game.

You're thinking way too far into the future man. Enjoy life and dont worry about ch!t that's out of your control.

 

[Desdinova]

@Desdinova even at 30 and dating 20yo this is the case, not so much bc of age but more social scenes. You probably got a rare girl.

I think the only exception in this case is she wasn't out getting laid in high school. She was more focused on getting good grades and lost her virginity at 18. I met her shortly after she turned 20. I didn't even fvcking choose this chick. She pursued me for two years while I dated and fvcked other women.

Dating younger women is going to increase the probability of getting one that's low mileage. Women who are still young haven't developed their own lives and routines at this point. What they end up doing is adapting your life and routines as their own. If you spend enough time with her, she will literally not know what life would be like without you.

I just can't stress enough how much of a waste it is to date older, high mileage women when you're looking for a LTR. If you're wanting to fvck and toss, you have a great big world of women to choose from. If you want a companion, you're going to have to work, filter, and ignore those who hate on you for "robbing the cradle".

 

[Glassguy]

I think the only exception in this case is she wasn't out getting laid in high school. She was more focused on getting good grades and lost her virginity at 18. I met her shortly after she turned 20. I didn't even fvcking choose this chick. She pursued me for two years while I dated and fvcked other women.

Dating younger women is going to increase the probability of getting one that's low mileage. Women who are still young haven't developed their own lives and routines at this point. What they end up doing is adapting your life and routines as their own. If you spend enough time with her, she will literally not know what life would be like without you.

I just can't stress enough how much of a waste it is to date older, high mileage women when you're looking for a LTR. If you're wanting to fvck and toss, you have a great big world of women to choose from. If you want a companion, you're going to have to work, filter, and ignore those who hate on you for "robbing the cradle".

I will be 41 in 2 weeks and went out with a 23 year old last night for drinks. I do agree with the benefits of dating younger women, but there are also younger women with higher mileage than 40 year olds. This chick could drink until the sun burned out, making her a "fvck and toss" lol. No way a 23 yr old chick can drink like her and hasnt been riding the c0ck parade.

 

[Spaz]

I think the only exception in this case is she wasn't out getting laid in high school. She was more focused on getting good grades and lost her virginity at 18. I met her shortly after she turned 20. I didn't even fvcking choose this chick. She pursued me for two years while I dated and fvcked other women.

Dating younger women is going to increase the probability of getting one that's low mileage. Women who are still young haven't developed their own lives and routines at this point. What they end up doing is adapting your life and routines as their own. If you spend enough time with her, she will literally not know what life would be like without you.

I just can't stress enough how much of a waste it is to date older, high mileage women when you're looking for a LTR. If you're wanting to fvck and toss, you have a great big world of women to choose from. If you want a companion, you're going to have to work, filter, and ignore those who hate on you for "robbing the cradle".

I hv a general rule that I've been sticking to for the last 15 years.

(You age ÷ 2) + 7 = age of women(or younger) that's most compatible.

It has to do with the difference of EQ levels between the sexes.

If a women has a higher EQ then the man, any LTR is bound to fail.

If a man has an EQ higher then the women, then their LTR will likely workout.

 

[Steady Eddie]

I´m not forcing her to stay in the relationship, I even offered to see other people, think about what´s best for her, etc. She had the perfect chance to exit the relationship but unless she´s an expert at faking tears I think she has oneitis for me.

Faking tears?

Women are past masters.

 

[Red Legg]

I will be 41 in 2 weeks and went out with a 23 year old last night for drinks. I do agree with the benefits of dating younger women, but there are also younger women with higher mileage than 40 year olds. This chick could drink until the sun burned out, making her a "fvck and toss" lol. No way a 23 yr old chick can drink like her and hasnt been riding the c0ck parade.

I banged an 18 year old that was almost as experienced as me sexually,I could not believe her skillset and I have been with over 250 women.I still think if you get a young one they will most likely bounce your ass to the curb once grandpa goes into the retirement home and maybe a hell of a lot sooner than that.

 

[Desdinova]

Id say as a general rule, if you can't be in her social circle then there will be an expiration date, age and hobby related.

My social circle is hers, with the exception of her girlfriends from high school. They're decent girls but I dont want to share conversation with them.

(You age ÷ 2) + 7 = age of women(or younger) that's most compatible

I shouldn't have to do math to have sex or be in a LTR

but there are also younger women with higher mileage than 40 year olds.

I agree 100 percent. However, you're not likely to find any 40 year olds who are virgins or low mileage. Dating young increased your odds

 

[Roober]

I banged an 18 year old that was almost as experienced as me sexually,I could not believe her skillset and I have been with over 250 women.I still think if you get a young one they will most likely bounce your ass to the curb once grandpa goes into the retirement home and maybe a hell of a lot sooner than that.

Yup. Eventually lives are going to hit a point where they dont match up philosophically.

 

[captain55]

The chick will leave you eventually. you can fool her for a while but once a chick knows you see no future with her its over. Been there done that. Wasted two years of a chicks time, didn't want to let her go but I knew within two months of dating I wasn't gonna marry her.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So we´ve been in the relationship for more than a year and a half. Last Friday night she said she wanted to take the next step.

I told her:

"You know, recently I´ve thinking about three different things: Marriage, moving in together, and having a baby. The truth is, I don´t want any of those three right now. Maybe when I´m 38-39 years old, (I´m 31) maybe I will want one or two of those three.

If you want, we can stop this relationship and start seeing other people. I´m trying to think about what´s best for you. I don´t want the years to go by and you resenting me for wasting your time or something like that."

I thought she was gonna break uo with me on the spot. She said she loved me and didn´t want to break up or see other people. The following Tuesday she sent a fancy expensive breakfast delivered to my house with a lot of romantic stuff written on the box.

She might be a keeper?

Uh, no . She thinks she's missing out and wants to see other people . Hence, her allowing you to see others . She saying what she think you wanna hear .

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Uh, no . She thinks she's missing out and wants to see other people . Hence, her allowing you to see others . She saying what she think you wanna hear .

She didn´t allowed me to see others, it was the other way around, I wanted her to keep her options open and meet other people but she doesn´t want to.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She didn´t allowed me to see others, it was the other way around, I wanted her to keep her options open and meet other people but she doesn´t want to.

Awesome 90% of the babes in 2018 would jump on that.