Girlfriend of 6 years no longer puts in effort (sex, lingerie, flirting)

[Jaylan]

lolololol.

I totally take back my earlier advice.

Based on your behavior, I actually would love to hear the gfs side of the story. Its very likely you have neglected her, and its possible that shes noticed your behavior changing. Which wouldnt compel her to keep things going strong with you. When you mislead men here, it really makes me doubt your perspective of things and makes me wonder how she sees things. Theres 2 sides to a relationship story...we know that.

Dump the chick dude. Cheating is never the answer in my book. Clearly this relationship is solely about your d!k and what you want. Way to mislead people in this thread by leaving out all the cheating. Why the hell would you wanna stick around if youve betrayed her trust, she supposedly doesnt put in effort, and shes hours away as well? Just move on, and find people youre better suited for. Grow a pair and stop being dependent on a woman you cant even be honest with.

Dump the gal and stop being selfish. Youre already halfway out the door. So just leave already...the relationship is toast based on all youve told us.

PS - I notice youve taken the time to post this exact thread in the bodybuilding.com Misc forum as well. They are tearing into him for that cheating revelation. And they think hes a troll too.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=161605343&page=3

 

[expos]

ADMISSION FROM OP:
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I've cheated on her with like 30 different girls in the past 6 months (hook ups, sex, making out) when she has really pissed me off or really shown her lack of effort. And yet I still want her :-(

What I find funny is that this board actually wants guys to do what this guy did, which is SPIN PLATES.

However, the irony here is killing me. You want to her to get her act in gear and fully commit to you, while you have plowed through the equivalent of a field hockey team!

Just tell her it's done. You've apparently got 30 woman to choose from - so get started with one of them.

 

[spax]

Any further advice fellas?

 

[DonGorgon]

Any further advice fellas?

drop her and find better

 

[goldengoose]

No effort means she doesn't like the relationship. Get out of it before she does.

 

[The_411]

No effort and getting fat at 22. Why would you stay with her? She's going to be one of those bitter fatter women with whiskers as she gets older isn't she?

At 23 you should be nowhere near a relationship. Sow your oates until your at least 28 and then you might want to settle down.