"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girlfriend of 6 years no longer puts in effort (sex, lingerie, flirting)

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Jaylan

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lolololol.

I totally take back my earlier advice.

Based on your behavior, I actually would love to hear the gfs side of the story. Its very likely you have neglected her, and its possible that shes noticed your behavior changing. Which wouldnt compel her to keep things going strong with you. When you mislead men here, it really makes me doubt your perspective of things and makes me wonder how she sees things. Theres 2 sides to a relationship story...we know that.

Dump the chick dude. Cheating is never the answer in my book. Clearly this relationship is solely about your d!k and what you want. Way to mislead people in this thread by leaving out all the cheating. Why the hell would you wanna stick around if youve betrayed her trust, she supposedly doesnt put in effort, and shes hours away as well? Just move on, and find people youre better suited for. Grow a pair and stop being dependent on a woman you cant even be honest with.

Dump the gal and stop being selfish. Youre already halfway out the door. So just leave already...the relationship is toast based on all youve told us.

PS - I notice youve taken the time to post this exact thread in the bodybuilding.com Misc forum as well. They are tearing into him for that cheating revelation. And they think hes a troll too.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=161605343&page=3
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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spax said:
ADMISSION FROM OP:
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I've cheated on her with like 30 different girls in the past 6 months (hook ups, sex, making out) when she has really pissed me off or really shown her lack of effort. And yet I still want her :-(
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What I find funny is that this board actually wants guys to do what this guy did, which is SPIN PLATES.

However, the irony here is killing me. You want to her to get her act in gear and fully commit to you, while you have plowed through the equivalent of a field hockey team!

Just tell her it's done. You've apparently got 30 woman to choose from - so get started with one of them.
 
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No effort means she doesn't like the relationship. Get out of it before she does.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No effort and getting fat at 22. Why would you stay with her? She's going to be one of those bitter fatter women with whiskers as she gets older isn't she?

At 23 you should be nowhere near a relationship. Sow your oates until your at least 28 and then you might want to settle down.
 
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