Crissco
Master Don Juan
Hey guys havent been on here in a while. Having some issues in my relationships. Me and GF has been arguing lately. Ill give good at bad overall about the relationship, in my eyes.
Bad:
Overly Emotional towards a lot of things
I have to hold her hand and make her "realize"
Takes her forever to understand a lot of things
Everything "comes out" when shes drunk
I have to repeat my self over and over / We run into the same issues
Shes been having an attitude lately
Takes a while to blow things off, just sits their and "thinks"
Admits to things, realized XYZ but the same problems come up
Good:
Cooks
Cleans/My place
Is there for me
Does the "little things" with nothing in return
Good balance between "clingy" and caring. Asks how my day is when shes at work, but doesnt over text
Open to a threesome
I have girls over when shes not here (To see if i like them for 3sum) - Has no issues about it
Learning computer programming/graphic design/ and self improvment with me
Took up weight lifting/boxing
Example - Today she is at a show for work in NYC. Some photographer for the show handed her a modeling agency card. Great happy for her, i know shes hot, but what got me is, she "texted" Im blushing..etc..Cool, but 10 min later she still was(As said through text)
To me...There is a difference between a LEGIT modeling agency handing you a card, compared to some guy or person doing it/putting it in your back pocket and continue to work instead of getting "emotionally up" about it.
It took her forever to understand that difference.
Im over reacting, I know that, the only part what got me was is how she didnt understand that, it makes her look un-loyal in my eyes.
She didnt realized that a little jealousy is a good thing, shows i do care, because if I wasn't a little jealous or didnt care, naturally, she would of been gone at the first hint of anything so to speak.
She has showed no other reason of un-loyalty, but we do have out very often and when we dont, she usually sends pictures (bc i know the people shes with, enjoy the moment) Great, thats awesome.
I have come so far in my life, especially mentally, i feel like I AM regressing back a bit because at times she just erks me the wrong way. You cant change people I know that
We've been dating for about 4-5 months
Am I taking this out of context here?
Bad:
Overly Emotional towards a lot of things
I have to hold her hand and make her "realize"
Takes her forever to understand a lot of things
Everything "comes out" when shes drunk
I have to repeat my self over and over / We run into the same issues
Shes been having an attitude lately
Takes a while to blow things off, just sits their and "thinks"
Admits to things, realized XYZ but the same problems come up
Good:
Cooks
Cleans/My place
Is there for me
Does the "little things" with nothing in return
Good balance between "clingy" and caring. Asks how my day is when shes at work, but doesnt over text
Open to a threesome
I have girls over when shes not here (To see if i like them for 3sum) - Has no issues about it
Learning computer programming/graphic design/ and self improvment with me
Took up weight lifting/boxing
Example - Today she is at a show for work in NYC. Some photographer for the show handed her a modeling agency card. Great happy for her, i know shes hot, but what got me is, she "texted" Im blushing..etc..Cool, but 10 min later she still was(As said through text)
To me...There is a difference between a LEGIT modeling agency handing you a card, compared to some guy or person doing it/putting it in your back pocket and continue to work instead of getting "emotionally up" about it.
It took her forever to understand that difference.
Im over reacting, I know that, the only part what got me was is how she didnt understand that, it makes her look un-loyal in my eyes.
She didnt realized that a little jealousy is a good thing, shows i do care, because if I wasn't a little jealous or didnt care, naturally, she would of been gone at the first hint of anything so to speak.
She has showed no other reason of un-loyalty, but we do have out very often and when we dont, she usually sends pictures (bc i know the people shes with, enjoy the moment) Great, thats awesome.
I have come so far in my life, especially mentally, i feel like I AM regressing back a bit because at times she just erks me the wrong way. You cant change people I know that
We've been dating for about 4-5 months
Am I taking this out of context here?
