"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girlfriend is becoming quite afc lol

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she has been what you guys would consider an afc if it applies to girls.

she tells me a lot that I am everything that she has ever wanted in a guy, and starts listing reasons and qualities why she thinks that I am so much better than every other guy. she talks about how she has never felt about any other guy the way she feels about me, and she tells me this a lot.

It is definately very sweet. She's such a cute girl... I don't really know how to respond to this, tho! like... what can I say when she says this stuff? I feel the same... but I am sure I shouldnt just straight up tell her...

so what should I say?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't say anything if you don't really feel it. If you feel the need to tell her you like her a lot and everything, do it, but never top her. Show her you like her and all but leave her with the feeling she cares more about you, than you do about her so she'll always have to keep working..
 
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How long have you know her? How many times have you hungout with her? How often do you see/call her? Need more info.
 
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known her: 5 months?

talk to her: pretty much... like 4 hours a day for real via internet/text

hang out: weekends + random weekdays every once in a while

I pretty much feel like I've known her forever.
 
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what can I say when she says this stuff? I feel the same... but I am sure I shouldnt just straight up tell her...
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And why can't you tell her? The idea is to never show her too much affection. Since the type of guy this website attracts tend to always show WAY too much affection way too fast, the rule gets butchered and becomes 'never show affection' - but this is as damaging as showing too much. When she says "You are great and wonderful and amazing and no guy has ever made me feel this way and I think I'm falling for you" then you're not going to lower her interest by saying "hey I think you're pretty cool too." You'll actually raise it by reciprocating her feelings.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I agree with Brother. You should tell her she's cute and stuff like that once in a while, just don't overdo it. Don't become a romeo wanna-be and get her chocolate and flowers all the time (she'll get spoiled, and fat).
 
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