"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girlfriend in Porn Video

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What would you do, if, while browsing random porn, you came across a homemade video of a girl that looked remarkably like your girlfriend? The only catch is, in the video, she is wearing an eye mask, so it is impossible to know for absolute certain. Every other physical feature looks identical. Even on close inspection of photos set beside the footage, everything matches down to the n*pples, pubic hair and facial expression.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I saw a girl I knew (friend of an ex-girlfriend) in some soft porn. Never told her I'd seen it.

My last gf was a glamour model, and did some raunchy shoots, and a sex scene in a horror movie. Wouldn't be surprised to see her doing something like that. Wouldn't bother me.

I'm very confident my present gf wouldn't do anything like that though.
 

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Just tell her that you found a porn she is in. You will know if it is her by the way she reacts.

That's if you're good a reading people.

Be cool about it though, act like you are excited when you ask.
 

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Ugh it reminds me when I found out my girlfriend at the time was a high dollar escort in Vegas. Her dad was really rich so I thought she was getting the money from him but that turned out wrong! She's probobly the main reason I don't trust woman anymore.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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armadon said:
Ugh it reminds me when I found out my girlfriend at the time was a high dollar escort in Vegas. Her dad was really rich so I thought she was getting the money from him but that turned out wrong! She's probobly the main reason I don't trust woman anymore.
Awesome! She must have been great in bed.
 

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thursday said:
What would you do, if, while browsing random porn, you came across a homemade video of a girl that looked remarkably like your girlfriend? The only catch is, in the video, she is wearing an eye mask, so it is impossible to know for absolute certain. Every other physical feature looks identical. Even on close inspection of photos set beside the footage, everything matches down to the n*pples, pubic hair and facial expression.

If I were you, I'd grab a video camera from somewhere and suggest you'd like to shoot some ho'made porn with her. If she has already done it, odds are VERY high she'll say 'Sure'. If she hasn't, the odds are STILL very high she'll let you.

No lose situation! :)


Most of my girlfriends have done or do porn professionally... so I fail to see any problem with the scenario, myself ;)

Johnny Soporno
Pornstar Wrangler
 

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This actually happened to one of my former professors. He found his WIFE on the internet during the second week of class. He kinda went numb after that. We didn't really do anything for that class the rest of the semester. We'd just come in and he'd let us do whatever we want, most of the time alls we did was sign in and leave. We had no test, no quizzes, no papers and no assignments.

I guess some people woudn't take it very well. Me? Since i have back up girlfriends I'd randomly email the porn to her friends or something devious. I've met more then enough girls who do some kind of porn and are very proud to have it as a second job. The "thrill" of dating one has long passed.
 

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PRMoon said:
This actually happened to one of my former professors. He found his WIFE on the internet during the second week of class. He kinda went numb after that. We didn't really do anything for that class the rest of the semester. We'd just come in and he'd let us do whatever we want, most of the time alls we did was sign in and leave. We had no test, no quizzes, no papers and no assignments.

I guess some people woudn't take it very well. Me? Since i have back up girlfriends I'd randomly email the porn to her friends or something devious. I've met more then enough girls who do some kind of porn and are very proud to have it as a second job. The "thrill" of dating one has long passed.
What's ironic is the fact that he found that suggested he probably watched a lot of porn and got off on thinking about someone else's GF or significant other being in the videos. I'm not trying to sound anti-porn because I'm not and it's possible he probably just liked the visuals. I'm just saying a lot of people like to see things "go around" but not "come around". Moral is never put any faith in a female.
 

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ketostix said:
What's ironic is the fact that he found that suggested he probably watched a lot of porn and got off on thinking about someone else's GF or significant other being in the videos. I'm not trying to sound anti-porn because I'm not and it's possible he probably just liked the visuals. I'm just saying a lot of people like to see things "go around" but not "come around". Moral is never put any faith in a female.
Worlds worst car wrecks is a very cool show...until it happens to you as well.

I think the moral is watch and make porn with your girlfriend or wife from the get go and you won't be suprised by her past:p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PRMoon said:
Worlds worst car wrecks is a very cool show...until it happens to you as well.
Yeah but I think there's a difference between curiousity about accidents and it's easier to accept an accident as opossed to someone else's willful actions.

I think the moral is watch and make porn with your girlfriend or wife from the get go and you won't be suprised by her past:p
Lol but the question is should there be other people with your GF in the porns?
 

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show her the video and say "is that you?"

i dont know why people have to make things so complicated.

if its not her, sure she'll be upset. to which you say 'hey, dont get upset with me, I was more shocked than you are now. it sure didn't make any sense to me. but the resemblence is uncanny. you can't really blame me for asking can you? would you rather i just kept this strange coincidence to myself? how would you react if you saw some guy who looked exactly like me in some porno?"
 

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I think one of the chicks I'm working on probably supplements her income that way, or has in the past. As long as she's healthy I'm game to see what tricks she can do.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I saw a guy I know in a porn movie once. Now there's something you just never bring up.

LMAO wow...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bible_Belt said:
I saw a guy I know in a porn movie once. Now there's something you just never bring up.
You can bring it up if you saw his face
 

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armadon said:
Ugh it reminds me when I found out my girlfriend at the time was a high dollar escort in Vegas. Her dad was really rich so I thought she was getting the money from him but that turned out wrong! She's probobly the main reason I don't trust woman anymore.

You too huh? You're the only other one If met. Hard one to get through, huh? Did her name start with an E? Mines dad was a millionaire, and she made a bunch of money in "real estate" so she was "retired" for several years. She was a HB 9.5, mindblowing in bed, paid for everything, super-rad in every way, EXCEPT the way she was with other guys, and that she was a high class hooker. She permanently fvcked me up, but it was totally worth it!
 

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PRMoon said:
Me? Since i have back up girlfriends I'd randomly email the porn to her friends or something devious.
Now this is a man after my respect. I'd do it even it wasn't her but looked remarkably close, imagine how it would affect her reputation. WOOT
 

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I would show her the video in question and then say:

"Hey that looks just like you, only she seems a bit more adventurous....."
This is nails! Heheh,..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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