What would you do, if, while browsing random porn, you came across a homemade video of a girl that looked remarkably like your girlfriend? The only catch is, in the video, she is wearing an eye mask, so it is impossible to know for absolute certain. Every other physical feature looks identical. Even on close inspection of photos set beside the footage, everything matches down to the n*pples, pubic hair and facial expression.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girlfriend in Porn Video
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I saw a girl I knew (friend of an ex-girlfriend) in some soft porn. Never told her I'd seen it.
My last gf was a glamour model, and did some raunchy shoots, and a sex scene in a horror movie. Wouldn't be surprised to see her doing something like that. Wouldn't bother me.
I'm very confident my present gf wouldn't do anything like that though.
My last gf was a glamour model, and did some raunchy shoots, and a sex scene in a horror movie. Wouldn't be surprised to see her doing something like that. Wouldn't bother me.
I'm very confident my present gf wouldn't do anything like that though.
Ugh it reminds me when I found out my girlfriend at the time was a high dollar escort in Vegas. Her dad was really rich so I thought she was getting the money from him but that turned out wrong! She's probobly the main reason I don't trust woman anymore.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Johnny Soporno
Senior Don Juan
thursday said:
If I were you, I'd grab a video camera from somewhere and suggest you'd like to shoot some ho'made porn with her. If she has already done it, odds are VERY high she'll say 'Sure'. If she hasn't, the odds are STILL very high she'll let you.
No lose situation!
Most of my girlfriends have done or do porn professionally... so I fail to see any problem with the scenario, myself
Johnny Soporno
Pornstar Wrangler
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
This actually happened to one of my former professors. He found his WIFE on the internet during the second week of class. He kinda went numb after that. We didn't really do anything for that class the rest of the semester. We'd just come in and he'd let us do whatever we want, most of the time alls we did was sign in and leave. We had no test, no quizzes, no papers and no assignments.
I guess some people woudn't take it very well. Me? Since i have back up girlfriends I'd randomly email the porn to her friends or something devious. I've met more then enough girls who do some kind of porn and are very proud to have it as a second job. The "thrill" of dating one has long passed.
I guess some people woudn't take it very well. Me? Since i have back up girlfriends I'd randomly email the porn to her friends or something devious. I've met more then enough girls who do some kind of porn and are very proud to have it as a second job. The "thrill" of dating one has long passed.
What's ironic is the fact that he found that suggested he probably watched a lot of porn and got off on thinking about someone else's GF or significant other being in the videos. I'm not trying to sound anti-porn because I'm not and it's possible he probably just liked the visuals. I'm just saying a lot of people like to see things "go around" but not "come around". Moral is never put any faith in a female.PRMoon said:
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Worlds worst car wrecks is a very cool show...until it happens to you as well.ketostix said:
I think the moral is watch and make porn with your girlfriend or wife from the get go and you won't be suprised by her past
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah but I think there's a difference between curiousity about accidents and it's easier to accept an accident as opossed to someone else's willful actions.PRMoon said:
Lol but the question is should there be other people with your GF in the porns?I think the moral is watch and make porn with your girlfriend or wife from the get go and you won't be suprised by her past
show her the video and say "is that you?"
i dont know why people have to make things so complicated.
if its not her, sure she'll be upset. to which you say 'hey, dont get upset with me, I was more shocked than you are now. it sure didn't make any sense to me. but the resemblence is uncanny. you can't really blame me for asking can you? would you rather i just kept this strange coincidence to myself? how would you react if you saw some guy who looked exactly like me in some porno?"
i dont know why people have to make things so complicated.
if its not her, sure she'll be upset. to which you say 'hey, dont get upset with me, I was more shocked than you are now. it sure didn't make any sense to me. but the resemblence is uncanny. you can't really blame me for asking can you? would you rather i just kept this strange coincidence to myself? how would you react if you saw some guy who looked exactly like me in some porno?"
bigjohnson
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I think one of the chicks I'm working on probably supplements her income that way, or has in the past. As long as she's healthy I'm game to see what tricks she can do.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I saw a guy I know in a porn movie once. Now there's something you just never bring up.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
armadon said:
You too huh? You're the only other one If met. Hard one to get through, huh? Did her name start with an E? Mines dad was a millionaire, and she made a bunch of money in "real estate" so she was "retired" for several years. She was a HB 9.5, mindblowing in bed, paid for everything, super-rad in every way, EXCEPT the way she was with other guys, and that she was a high class hooker. She permanently fvcked me up, but it was totally worth it!
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
tell her you are a fan of her "acting" and would like her to give you some "acting tips."
MacAvoy
Banned
Now this is a man after my respect. I'd do it even it wasn't her but looked remarkably close, imagine how it would affect her reputation. WOOTPRMoon said:
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
This is nails! Heheh,..DJDamage said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.