Hi all, so i've been with my girlfriend for about 2 months. She has been very giving as she always buys me stuff for my apartment, cooks for me, hung up my clothes, and has told me that she loves me very much nad has initiated many of the dates. In addition, we've done everything but sex, and every time we meet, she gives me a BJ and I spend Friday nights with her. However, everytime I go home she always tells me to call when I reach and everytime (about 10 times) she has picked up the phone, even when sleepy. However, today I called her when I reached and she didn't pick up (as she was about to sleep when I left) so I let her know that I reached safely and look forward to seeing her tommorrow. So far ( its been almost 4 hours) and she hasn't returned my call yet. Is this something to be concerned about or I am just being paranoid? I mean, I've always been a DJ around her, making her laugh/smile and being a challenge so I don't think I've done anything to make her lose interest.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girlfriend hasn't returned call
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Was there any other change in her behaviour? Is she normally the sort of person who ignores people?
Don't worry about it anyway. Usually it's something small that has happened. Just act normally and don't contact her because she's see a major weakness there.
Don't worry about it anyway. Usually it's something small that has happened. Just act normally and don't contact her because she's see a major weakness there.
oakraiderz2
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Didnt you post this a few days ago? Why havent you had sex with a girl youve been with for two months?
Hi slaog, I didn't notice any change in her behavior. We were making out before I left and she was her usual affectionate self. It was just the first time that she didn't pick up the phone (normally she picks up even when sleeping) when I called and me leaving her a message letting her know that i reached safely and didn't get a returned call (even though I didn't ask her to call me back). As a result, I was wondering if it was a red flag or just me being paranoid?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Probably you being paranoid.aek70850 said:
What usually happens is they change their behaviours and the man notices it. You didn't notice any change in her behaviour when you were with her so thats a good sign.Has she called yet?
She is busy blowing the linebackers from the high school football team. :crackup:
Chill out man. You're being so needy and desperate right now. If you were being a DJ before, then now you're being complete opposite of it.
And why haven't you put your penis inside her vagina yet? What do you need the key to her chastity belt?
Chill out man. You're being so needy and desperate right now. If you were being a DJ before, then now you're being complete opposite of it.
And why haven't you put your penis inside her vagina yet? What do you need the key to her chastity belt?
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It well never be that simple ... this you shall soon learn...aek70850 said:
disconnect from her... make her wonder where you are and why you have not called... or you will soon lose her.
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idiot, she alrady is banging some other dude hahahahaha
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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4 hours after you said she was falling asleep?
Is that a joke? She's probably asleep lol
Is that a joke? She's probably asleep lol
She tells you to call her when you get home to let her know you're safe? Unless you live in a war zone, it sounds like you got yourself a new Mother! Think about it: she cooks, cleans, washes your clothes, tells you to call her when you get home safely and doesn't have sex with you.
As for not returning your call after 4 hours, maybe she has a life too. Just a thought.
As for not returning your call after 4 hours, maybe she has a life too. Just a thought.