things have been great with her.. everytime we see each other we do the deed as many times as i can reload. But about 2 weeks ago i went to Vegas. While out there she called me all the time and texted me all the time. She kept saying to be careful and i better not be hooking up with any girls... when i came back she was a completly different person after we got done hooking up she looked at me and goes if i find out you did this with any skanks out there im going to kill you... i laughed. She has suddenly began to question how many girls ive been with, how many one night stands ive had, how many friends with benifits ive had... She is an awesome girl about 6 ft dirty blonde hair, great body prolly about a 9.. i want to keep this girl so how can i stop this cycle ?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girlfriend got weird
- Thread starter heater528
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You can't fix her problems. That's her job.
She's incredibly jealous and insecure, and it won't go away. If you think you can handle this type of behavior from her in the future whenever you speak to a woman or take a trip, then keep her around.
I personally wouldn't tolerate this kind of behavior. You can try telling her to smarten the fvck up and drop the jealousy lectures. If that doesn't work, drop her.
Its a shame... every LTR i get into the girl always ends up getting this way. With her i was starting to get alittle upset seeing everyguy always hitting on her but i knew better. Shes a cool girl but i agree if it doesnt stop shes gotta go
WORKEROUTER
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heater528 said:
Tell her that if she confronts you one more time, you're going to hit her so hard she'll never say anything again.