things have been great with her.. everytime we see each other we do the deed as many times as i can reload. But about 2 weeks ago i went to Vegas. While out there she called me all the time and texted me all the time. She kept saying to be careful and i better not be hooking up with any girls... when i came back she was a completly different person after we got done hooking up she looked at me and goes if i find out you did this with any skanks out there im going to kill you... i laughed. She has suddenly began to question how many girls ive been with, how many one night stands ive had, how many friends with benifits ive had... She is an awesome girl about 6 ft dirty blonde hair, great body prolly about a 9.. i want to keep this girl so how can i stop this cycle ?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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You can't fix her problems. That's her job.
She's incredibly jealous and insecure, and it won't go away. If you think you can handle this type of behavior from her in the future whenever you speak to a woman or take a trip, then keep her around.
I personally wouldn't tolerate this kind of behavior. You can try telling her to smarten the fvck up and drop the jealousy lectures. If that doesn't work, drop her.
Its a shame... every LTR i get into the girl always ends up getting this way. With her i was starting to get alittle upset seeing everyguy always hitting on her but i knew better. Shes a cool girl but i agree if it doesnt stop shes gotta go
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heater528 said:
Tell her that if she confronts you one more time, you're going to hit her so hard she'll never say anything again.