things have been great with her.. everytime we see each other we do the deed as many times as i can reload. But about 2 weeks ago i went to Vegas. While out there she called me all the time and texted me all the time. She kept saying to be careful and i better not be hooking up with any girls... when i came back she was a completly different person after we got done hooking up she looked at me and goes if i find out you did this with any skanks out there im going to kill you... i laughed. She has suddenly began to question how many girls ive been with, how many one night stands ive had, how many friends with benifits ive had... She is an awesome girl about 6 ft dirty blonde hair, great body prolly about a 9.. i want to keep this girl so how can i stop this cycle ?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Girlfriend got weird
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You can't fix her problems. That's her job.
She's incredibly jealous and insecure, and it won't go away. If you think you can handle this type of behavior from her in the future whenever you speak to a woman or take a trip, then keep her around.
I personally wouldn't tolerate this kind of behavior. You can try telling her to smarten the fvck up and drop the jealousy lectures. If that doesn't work, drop her.
Its a shame... every LTR i get into the girl always ends up getting this way. With her i was starting to get alittle upset seeing everyguy always hitting on her but i knew better. Shes a cool girl but i agree if it doesnt stop shes gotta go
WORKEROUTER
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heater528 said:
Tell her that if she confronts you one more time, you're going to hit her so hard she'll never say anything again.