"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girlfriend going to the beach for the night with her girlfriend.

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Here's another great test. She calls me crying Saturday morning, she promises she is not seeing her ex, and we get back together.

So I say "can I see you today?" She says "I'm going to the beach with my girlfriend - can we go tomorrow?".

So I just had to bite my tongue. I didn't ask if it's for the night but we all know what happens when two girls get a hotel at the beach for the night.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey yo, sorry to tell you man...but me and me Big Kev chico? We heading to a hotel at the beach tonight bro with some ladies. Jeff and Sean are coming along too chico.

Hey yo, I would you invite you along but you need to have the right car chico...and all the right gold chico.
 
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and we get back together.

You should have made her work a little first bro. You could have stayed in the drivers seat a little longer.

"can I see you today?"

Another mistake. I would have said something like 'give me a call next week, maybe we'll get together'.
 
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Kings_royalty said:
and we get back together.

You should have made her work a little first bro. You could have stayed in the drivers seat a little longer.

"can I see you today?"

Another mistake. I would have said something like 'give me a call next week, maybe we'll get together'.
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Well she first called Friday afternoon. She emailed Friday evening, and at 7 PM she called again. Then she called Saturday morning at 7AM to ask why she hadn't heard from me. So I felt that wasn't too easy for her. Now she emailed to say she's "sorry" about today. I just said have fun.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Plate spinning on you.
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First I said "let me know what time you'll be back tomorrow" - hoping she would say she is not spending the night. At least hoping she knew what time she'd be back. No reply.

Then I said Sunday isn't a good day. I told her we can talk next week.

Instant reply "Okay" she said "Let me know".

I didn't want to feel like I was pressuring her. Man, I need to get away.
 
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