"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girlfriend going to the beach for the night with her girlfriend.

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Here's another great test. She calls me crying Saturday morning, she promises she is not seeing her ex, and we get back together.

So I say "can I see you today?" She says "I'm going to the beach with my girlfriend - can we go tomorrow?".

So I just had to bite my tongue. I didn't ask if it's for the night but we all know what happens when two girls get a hotel at the beach for the night.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey yo, sorry to tell you man...but me and me Big Kev chico? We heading to a hotel at the beach tonight bro with some ladies. Jeff and Sean are coming along too chico.

Hey yo, I would you invite you along but you need to have the right car chico...and all the right gold chico.
 
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and we get back together.

You should have made her work a little first bro. You could have stayed in the drivers seat a little longer.

"can I see you today?"

Another mistake. I would have said something like 'give me a call next week, maybe we'll get together'.
 
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Kings_royalty said:
and we get back together.

You should have made her work a little first bro. You could have stayed in the drivers seat a little longer.

"can I see you today?"

Another mistake. I would have said something like 'give me a call next week, maybe we'll get together'.
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Well she first called Friday afternoon. She emailed Friday evening, and at 7 PM she called again. Then she called Saturday morning at 7AM to ask why she hadn't heard from me. So I felt that wasn't too easy for her. Now she emailed to say she's "sorry" about today. I just said have fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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edmond said:
Plate spinning on you.
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First I said "let me know what time you'll be back tomorrow" - hoping she would say she is not spending the night. At least hoping she knew what time she'd be back. No reply.

Then I said Sunday isn't a good day. I told her we can talk next week.

Instant reply "Okay" she said "Let me know".

I didn't want to feel like I was pressuring her. Man, I need to get away.
 
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