"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girlfriend giving TOO much atention!

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I look at my relation, and my girl is giving me too much atention, it even gets boring.
I mean like, she sends me like 200 sms's by week, and wants to chat long by sms, she will do everything i ask her to do, if i want to go this place she will, if i want sex this moment she will want too, all she's focused on is to please me.
She completly quit the drama ****, and i like it, but she is being too nice right now. A couple months ago she would tag along drinking a few beers with me, and now she doesnt drink not even one, and its not fun. Also going out with her at saturday night, she has to be home at 3:30 am so i cant make big plans cause we cant go clubing, and if i setup something with my friends, she will be too much focused in me instead of socializing.

I really like her a lot, but what you guys sugest as a way to handle this kind of atention?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ignore her text messages and call her a cab from the club
 
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lol in portugal ppl start to enter the clubs at 2 am, and the prime hour its between 3 and 5:30 am, so there's no point in going to a club from 2 to 3.
 
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so leave her at home
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i like her a lot.

i dunno what about, but seems like every LTR i have, at some point i get bored. Then i break up, and latter i miss the girl.
 
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If she doesnt want to drink or stay up late, then let her be. If you cant respect your girl, then you should go find someone else more suitable for you.
 
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finally I find a portuguese guy in this forum :) Trance in what city do you live?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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