"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girlfriend gets Extremely Jealous

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foomee

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My girlfriend whom I've only been dating for about a month gets extremely jealous when she sees me flirting and talking to other girls. Last night we all went bowling and one of her roommates kept making fun of me and teasing me and I didn't know that was flirting till later that night when my gf got angry. This shows she has very high interest, I'm not annoyed of it yet, but how can I use this to my advantage? Should I keep talking to these girls so that she somehow stays interested? Or should I quit talking to them all together? Any advice from you LTR people?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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When was the last time you flirted with your GF in the presence of other women?
 
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exteme jealousy is a BIG turnoff and should be treated as a red flag.

My girlfriend is a little bit clingy and jealous, but only under situations that warrent them.

If she would go off on me for the littlest things, then I would say so long because my job that I have (mascot) makes me flirt and hit on the ladies all the time.

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foomee said:
One of her roommates kept making fun of me and teasing me and I didn't know that was flirting till later that night when my gf got angry. This shows she has very high interest, I'm not annoyed of it yet, but how can I use this to my advantage? Should I keep talking to these girls so that she somehow stays interested? Or should I quit talking to them all together? Any advice from you LTR people?
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Guess your IL in your gf isn't that high.
 
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