"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girlfriend gets Extremely Jealous

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foomee

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My girlfriend whom I've only been dating for about a month gets extremely jealous when she sees me flirting and talking to other girls. Last night we all went bowling and one of her roommates kept making fun of me and teasing me and I didn't know that was flirting till later that night when my gf got angry. This shows she has very high interest, I'm not annoyed of it yet, but how can I use this to my advantage? Should I keep talking to these girls so that she somehow stays interested? Or should I quit talking to them all together? Any advice from you LTR people?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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When was the last time you flirted with your GF in the presence of other women?
 
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exteme jealousy is a BIG turnoff and should be treated as a red flag.

My girlfriend is a little bit clingy and jealous, but only under situations that warrent them.

If she would go off on me for the littlest things, then I would say so long because my job that I have (mascot) makes me flirt and hit on the ladies all the time.

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foomee said:
One of her roommates kept making fun of me and teasing me and I didn't know that was flirting till later that night when my gf got angry. This shows she has very high interest, I'm not annoyed of it yet, but how can I use this to my advantage? Should I keep talking to these girls so that she somehow stays interested? Or should I quit talking to them all together? Any advice from you LTR people?
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Guess your IL in your gf isn't that high.
 
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