We are not living together but to be honest sometimes i do feel like she isnt giving me the respect i should be getting..but mostly i do get respect....how is ur view of to act like a "man"...normally when i do touch her i she doesnt mind at all....sure it depends were i do touch her,what mood.etc.i guess i think about this intimacy sex thing to much and should concentrate on attracting her more to me.but then again im a man.its just when i get her to laugh and have a fun day together that i get rejected so to speak and then i get mad sortof...she started today with cramps and i saw her tampons in her handbag..so guess its that time again...gheez.. Any tips on romancing her?and still stay in control...and making her what me more?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Girlfriend gets angry,why??
- Thread starter Jakes21
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jake, again, have you had sex with her before?
A girl who likes you and wants you sexually shouldn't be knocking you back like this and shouldn't get angry when you touch her.
Honestly, how many 'girlfriends' would get angry if you touched their ass?? If they're into you they like it and show it (giggle, smile, whatever).
Something's definitely *wrong*
A girl who likes you and wants you sexually shouldn't be knocking you back like this and shouldn't get angry when you touch her.
Honestly, how many 'girlfriends' would get angry if you touched their ass?? If they're into you they like it and show it (giggle, smile, whatever).
Something's definitely *wrong*
dannyegg4575
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jeez... all this time you slept together and you never had sex with her? how long have you been seeing her?
and you probably never will.Jakes21 said:No i havnt had sex with her
Sorry Jake but:
A) she ain't your girlfriend, but a friend (sex is the only thing that seperates the two)
B) She is not attracted to you (whether intially she had mild attraction is long gone. Women who are attracted to a man will initiate sex, instead of waiting for the man to beg for it.)
C) She has issues.
D) So do you.
Read the DJ Bible.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannyegg4575
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Guys... easy on the guy.
how old are you jake? Are you a virgin? Is she a virgin?
I'll tell you a secret. When a girl hangs out with a guy for a long time and he doesn't make a move, he gets the LJBF status. That's right, he becomes her gf.
I was so dumb, i listened to a coworker of mine who I thought was a player. His name is Sanford. As i started learning more about this stuff, I come to realize all the **** I learn from him were lies. I never realized how chodey he is and that he got his girls because of his status.
Don't be her girlfriend man. It's disgusting to her so she can't fathom it.
If you kissed her, that's cool. If you held her hand that's cool. But if you dated her for a long time and you never had sex with her, it's not her fault. It's yours.
how old are you jake? Are you a virgin? Is she a virgin?
I'll tell you a secret. When a girl hangs out with a guy for a long time and he doesn't make a move, he gets the LJBF status. That's right, he becomes her gf.
I was so dumb, i listened to a coworker of mine who I thought was a player. His name is Sanford. As i started learning more about this stuff, I come to realize all the **** I learn from him were lies. I never realized how chodey he is and that he got his girls because of his status.
Don't be her girlfriend man. It's disgusting to her so she can't fathom it.
If you kissed her, that's cool. If you held her hand that's cool. But if you dated her for a long time and you never had sex with her, it's not her fault. It's yours.
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Find 2 new women to FJakes21 said:How do i fix this?
Nah we never slept together.shes 19 ,im 23..she lives with her parents and is still a virgin....we had a couple of close calls but ya....today we were touching eachother playfully and slapping eachothers hands and my hand touch one of her breasts...which she said "hey..." and smiled...i just smiled and said "oops"...maybe i shouldve said something else...but she didnt got mad...how do u guys recommend me getting her in the mood?we've ben dating 2 years nw
dannyegg4575
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If it's been two years it's hard to say dude. I've never met a couple that held up for so long without any sexual contact... good for you?
anyway dude, it's not that hard to romance a girl if she's interested in you.
Almost anything you do will turn her on. But you have to be willing to do the small things. ie. write her little notes each day. give her some romantic ****... call her in the middle of the day just to say hi and ask her how her day was.
These little things add dividends. You don't have to do big stuff... small stuff that makes her smile. That's all it takes.
And when time comes, candlelight dinner. works for me every time.
watch a romantic movie together. sometimes i don't know how i get myself through it but it works like a charm!
anyway dude, it's not that hard to romance a girl if she's interested in you.
Almost anything you do will turn her on. But you have to be willing to do the small things. ie. write her little notes each day. give her some romantic ****... call her in the middle of the day just to say hi and ask her how her day was.
These little things add dividends. You don't have to do big stuff... small stuff that makes her smile. That's all it takes.
And when time comes, candlelight dinner. works for me every time.
watch a romantic movie together. sometimes i don't know how i get myself through it but it works like a charm!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
3countriesPlan
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Here is my advice. Does she put out? Answer with one word. Are you satisfied accidentally feeling up on her or getting soft kisses? Do you want your relationship to be like that? You need to go out and get what you want. Simplify your mindset. If she is not performing well then you need to begin looking somewhere else. As she is able to reject you for so long it looks like she won’t be breaking down anytime soon. Putting that much effort for some tang is a waste of time.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
If you are not happy in a relationship. Get out of it.
girls are not like us! they can't just fvck on a dime. they need to be stimulated and turned on to get them in the mood. you have to be slow and sensual. is she a virgin? i hope not! maybe deem the lights a little, turn on some music, you gotta set the mood man!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Lol. This shows how little you know. Bad advice.
dannyegg4575 said:When was the last time you actually romance this woman?
Spontaneously surprise her with romance...
If she is rejecting you now, there has to be a reason. You don't need to do much dude, speak to her and see if something's up.
when was the last time you had sex? And how often do you actually get her "ready" for sex?
do you just pull down your pants and just go "LETS GO BABY????!"
seriously dude, she has to be ready for it.
Talk to her softly, not necessarily have sex with her. The point is to make her feel safe. let her know and feel you're not treating her like a piece of meat for GOD'S SAKE!
one night, talk to her, whisper in her ears, hey, good night baby... that's it.
romance.. you know the drill... all that jazz... i'm getting goosebumps...
wjh
Master Don Juan
False. I've banged girls in my car under very unromantic settings. If she's higly attracted to you none of the romantic crap is necessary.
yama600rr said:girls are not like us! they can't just fvck on a dime. they need to be stimulated and turned on to get them in the mood. you have to be slow and sensual. is she a virgin? i hope not! maybe deem the lights a little, turn on some music, you gotta set the mood man!
wjh
Master Don Juan
Bingo.Wolf said:but what you should know, is that you shouldn't be wasting your time with her.