Women tend to dress sexier when they are single and just starting to hook up with you, but after it becomes an LTR they tone down. But the clothes are still in the closet.
If she is gaining, there is always an article of clothing she has not worn in some time because of it. Ask her to wear it because you just remembered how much you use to like her in it. Be playful.
The problem will reveal itself without you being openly rude or suspiciously suggestive, risking wasting your time with all the BS of an argument.
When she starts her backpeddling, her unwillingness or discovers the buttons don't close, shrug it off, make it all ok, even if the fat question comes up, peck her on the cheek and abrubtly decide to go do something totally unrelated and fairly boring instead, like mowing the lawn.
That ought to light a fire under her azz.
If she is gaining, there is always an article of clothing she has not worn in some time because of it. Ask her to wear it because you just remembered how much you use to like her in it. Be playful.
The problem will reveal itself without you being openly rude or suspiciously suggestive, risking wasting your time with all the BS of an argument.
When she starts her backpeddling, her unwillingness or discovers the buttons don't close, shrug it off, make it all ok, even if the fat question comes up, peck her on the cheek and abrubtly decide to go do something totally unrelated and fairly boring instead, like mowing the lawn.
That ought to light a fire under her azz.
