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Girlfriend dumped me. Looking for advice.

NateDaGreat

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Like the title says, my girlfriend dumped me. Please don't try to help me get her back as that is not an option. I am unhappy and feel more helpless than I have in the past with other girls. I want to move on and be happy and find other girls and hopefully you guys can direct me to some good threads or give me some advice that has helped you.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Go workout till u passout right now
 

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NateDaGreat said:
Like the title says, my girlfriend dumped me. Please don't try to help me get her back as that is not an option. I am unhappy and feel more helpless than I have in the past with other girls. I want to move on and be happy and find other girls and hopefully you guys can direct me to some good threads or give me some advice that has helped you.

Default response is no contact man.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160056

Good luck.
 

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well you let yourself fall for her, now you have to suffer the consequences.
 

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OP, what you feel right now is normal, you're only human. It will pass. If you want speedy recovery - nothing beats fvcking a hotter chick.
And here's something else: if a hot chick feels that you're hung up on your ex, that's a gina tingles generator. As long as you don't say more than "It didn't work out" she will, more likely, go into qualification mode. Milk it. But don't tell a sob story, don't whine or anything.

skinnyguy said:
well you let yourself fall for her, now you have to suffer the consequences.
skinnyguy, I cringe when I read your stuff. Please restrain yourself from sharing this kind of "wisdom", it's not constructive at all.
You are indeed needy and bitter. Just get over it. You're the only one who can help you. Step one is to break your negative thinking cycle, man.
 

GetFit66

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You need some GetFit66, is all you need baby.

Netflix marathon, to anyone feeling like sh1t: get a one month trial of Netflix.com/PhillyD and watch all of Breaking Bad.

Get some popcorn, get some fruits, some fish/chicken/beef, a beer or two and HAVE GOOD TIME

fooook
 

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skinnyguy said:
well you let yourself fall for her, now you have to suffer the consequences.
WTF, this coming from YOU ?? GTFO man. Look in the mirror. ..

OP - We all feel your pain brother as we've all been there. Please take up the "NC challenge" as well as reading the "Just got dumped guide". You need to develop a "I don't give a f*ck mindset" when it comes to girls. Thankfully you've come to the right place. Make use of the "Bible" as well. It's packed with good information. ..
 

GetFit66

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You guys need to quit picking on skinnyguy, we all need to strive to become like him. He is the perfect man. An aura so strong b1tches run when they see him coming.
 
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