"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girlfriend doesn't want to pay me rent.

The Duke

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For me I never want to be married. I also got tired of all the time and money wasted traveling between her place and my place.

I also got tired of not having enough time to get things done around my own house.

It also sucks when you have animals to care for.

Having clothes spread between two places and always having to plan ahead and be somewhere at a certain time wore on me.


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bandolero

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Heard from another employee that he and his girlfriend split everything. Everything 50/50

If she does the dishes , she only does hers .
If she changes the sheets ....you guessed it
If she does the laundry....

If they buy groceries, they only eat what they bought for themselves, or bought together .

I was stunned for about an hour.

Call me old fashioned and I do get the point ,
but you guys are describing a ****ing roommate.

It would be good if both would put on the traditional shoe
 

EyeBRollin

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For me I never want to be married. I also got tired of all the time and money wasted traveling between her place and my place.
I get it. You’re sacrificing a lot though by having a live in girlfriend.

My situation being married.. my wife lives in my place I bought years ago. We will buy a house together soon. In the meantime, there are no financial splits in my household. Wifey only has our joint bank accounts, and gets paid there. My philosophy is: if a woman wants to live under my roof and goes outside to earn an income, I better have access to every dollar of it.
 
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