"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girlfriend doesn't want to pay me rent.

The Duke

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For me I never want to be married. I also got tired of all the time and money wasted traveling between her place and my place.

I also got tired of not having enough time to get things done around my own house.

It also sucks when you have animals to care for.

Having clothes spread between two places and always having to plan ahead and be somewhere at a certain time wore on me.


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bandolero

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Heard from another employee that he and his girlfriend split everything. Everything 50/50

If she does the dishes , she only does hers .
If she changes the sheets ....you guessed it
If she does the laundry....

If they buy groceries, they only eat what they bought for themselves, or bought together .

I was stunned for about an hour.

Call me old fashioned and I do get the point ,
but you guys are describing a ****ing roommate.

It would be good if both would put on the traditional shoe
 

EyeBRollin

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For me I never want to be married. I also got tired of all the time and money wasted traveling between her place and my place.
I get it. You’re sacrificing a lot though by having a live in girlfriend.

My situation being married.. my wife lives in my place I bought years ago. We will buy a house together soon. In the meantime, there are no financial splits in my household. Wifey only has our joint bank accounts, and gets paid there. My philosophy is: if a woman wants to live under my roof and goes outside to earn an income, I better have access to every dollar of it.
 
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