"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girlfriend Doesn't Want to Have Sex

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try viagra plus redbull and make sure eat beforehand
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's not great sex but it's enough to satisfy me at the moment. I do tons of other stuff, always try to mix it up and throw in something new; even if it's just something little. I feel like I'm above average in bed.

I was really sexually attracted to her at first. Now it's less so. I was going through a 1+ year drought when I met her, so that could be part of it too.
 

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You need to stop making sex such a 'thing'. Next time, just get in bed together (naked or almost naked) and get into that comfortable sleepy-sexy state that girls like so much.
 
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