"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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girlfriend compalines i dont message, text her enough..tell her to call me more?

shark

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Well, last week she complaint that i didn't text her in school. So the next day i got a text from that night asking to call so i txted her in school (had a good excuse) about how i just passed out that night and she didn't text back so that took care of that.

The other day she complained that i NEVER msg her online, which i don't really. She is usually the one to message me..and she still ususally is however i'll message her ONCE in a while.

She doesn't really call me much though...so can i tell her to call me more often? Or is there a way i can be c and f with it..

i know it isn't a big deal, but i'm trying to improve EVERY little aspect of my game..b/c it is these little things that get to me. The bigger issues i have a better idea on how to handle.

thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This stuff is her problem not yours. I wouldn't change anything for her.
 

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Hi

If you start messaging and whatever like a girl does, this girl will also think that you are similar to a girl and get bored with you. At the moment she can protest and complain all her soul that men are all the same and they can't communicate. Don't deprive her of that pleasure.

If she complains too much, tell her that she should bare her soul with her best girlfriend.

Also by not baring your soul to her, you keep a certain amount of mystery and attractiveness. Don't deprive her of it.
 

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tell her that guys don't text message......that happend to me i text a girl and when i called her she would never awnser and i just stopped liking her.....it was ugly.....


call don't text..and if she text you telle her to call you period
 
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