"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girlfriend compalines i dont message, text her enough..tell her to call me more?

shark

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Well, last week she complaint that i didn't text her in school. So the next day i got a text from that night asking to call so i txted her in school (had a good excuse) about how i just passed out that night and she didn't text back so that took care of that.

The other day she complained that i NEVER msg her online, which i don't really. She is usually the one to message me..and she still ususally is however i'll message her ONCE in a while.

She doesn't really call me much though...so can i tell her to call me more often? Or is there a way i can be c and f with it..

i know it isn't a big deal, but i'm trying to improve EVERY little aspect of my game..b/c it is these little things that get to me. The bigger issues i have a better idea on how to handle.

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This stuff is her problem not yours. I wouldn't change anything for her.
 

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Hi

If you start messaging and whatever like a girl does, this girl will also think that you are similar to a girl and get bored with you. At the moment she can protest and complain all her soul that men are all the same and they can't communicate. Don't deprive her of that pleasure.

If she complains too much, tell her that she should bare her soul with her best girlfriend.

Also by not baring your soul to her, you keep a certain amount of mystery and attractiveness. Don't deprive her of it.
 

Badmannaz

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tell her that guys don't text message......that happend to me i text a girl and when i called her she would never awnser and i just stopped liking her.....it was ugly.....


call don't text..and if she text you telle her to call you period
 
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