"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girlfriend broke up with me

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Alright im stupid, but I am suffering from one-itis as you guys would say. Now theres no parties comin up, and i got work so i have little chance goin out to meet new girls. But have any of you, wanted to get back together with the girl? She means a lot to me, i was thinkin give her 2 weeks off. What ways have you gotten your girl back?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i just need people to talk abuot this issue. SO give me some insight.

she broke up with me, i want her back.

thats basically it.
 
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99.9% of the time she's not gonna want you back so don't even bother. Meet girls any way you can, your proubly just making excuses if you say you can't.
 
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Zaraza said:
i just need people to talk abuot this issue. SO give me some insight.

she broke up with me, i want her back.

thats basically it.
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i know its hard at times
but you will have more fun dating more chicks than staying with one
and go hang out with your guy friends HAVE THE BEST TIME OF YOUR LIFE! your only in highschool you dont want to marry your highschool girl (in most cases)
but just have fun and experiment with people
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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