"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ll Principe

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Its my girlfriend's birthday this week and was thinking of doing something special with her...

I was thinking of a romantic cruise however the weather forecast doesnt look too good for the day..

Is there any other ideas other than that and the cliched "dinner" ?

Any ideas any of you have?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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take her out to dinner. yeah i know it is cliche, but she will like it. also, give her a nice bouquet of fresh spring/summer flowers (roses are overrated and for valentines day). Also spend the whole day with her (if you can, otherwise spend a day or two with her on the weekend) make her feel really special and smile at her a lot. she will feel like a queen. as for a gift gift, i have no idea because i don't know what she likes. maybe take her shopping or something? i m not sure about that one, but I hope this helps at least some :]
Best of Luck...
 
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ask one of her friends what she wants
dont over spend then shel feel obligated when your bday around
over spending = overcompensating for your own charcter flaws

show her a good time with minimal money spent/material objects
 
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You call yourselfs DOn Juan's and I have been away for 24 hours and the best you guys could come up with was answers I already knew...

COME ON?

What other ideas are there aside from

-Cruise
-Dinner

help please, time is short
 
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Can't help you much, my gf's b-day is this Sunday and I haven't put any thought into what I'll do yet, I start planning Friday night (I work well under pressure ;) - thinking some things from Victoria's Secret (their regular summer clothes not lingerie) and a weekend spent clubbing (I'm going to get some x too). No cruises though for us, you two must have been dating awhile to spring for that!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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