"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girlfriend Birthday

Ll Principe

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Its my girlfriend's birthday this week and was thinking of doing something special with her...

I was thinking of a romantic cruise however the weather forecast doesnt look too good for the day..

Is there any other ideas other than that and the cliched "dinner" ?

Any ideas any of you have?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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procanto

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take her out to dinner. yeah i know it is cliche, but she will like it. also, give her a nice bouquet of fresh spring/summer flowers (roses are overrated and for valentines day). Also spend the whole day with her (if you can, otherwise spend a day or two with her on the weekend) make her feel really special and smile at her a lot. she will feel like a queen. as for a gift gift, i have no idea because i don't know what she likes. maybe take her shopping or something? i m not sure about that one, but I hope this helps at least some :]
Best of Luck...
 

nubian-knight

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ask one of her friends what she wants
dont over spend then shel feel obligated when your bday around
over spending = overcompensating for your own charcter flaws

show her a good time with minimal money spent/material objects
 

Ll Principe

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You call yourselfs DOn Juan's and I have been away for 24 hours and the best you guys could come up with was answers I already knew...

COME ON?

What other ideas are there aside from

-Cruise
-Dinner

help please, time is short
 

MaddXMan

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Can't help you much, my gf's b-day is this Sunday and I haven't put any thought into what I'll do yet, I start planning Friday night (I work well under pressure ;) - thinking some things from Victoria's Secret (their regular summer clothes not lingerie) and a weekend spent clubbing (I'm going to get some x too). No cruises though for us, you two must have been dating awhile to spring for that!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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