"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girlfriend birthday....present?

SamMalone

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Girl I've been seeing for two months. We've been having sex since the first night she came over two months ago. She says she doesn't like presents so I don't think I should get anything big. Any suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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CD, Poster, Card, Dinner, ..... Something simple. If you picked one of those they are pretty inexpensive.
 

horaholic

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This ones easy. Go window shopping. Hang out with her, and go to the mall, swap meet, other stores, or wherever, and take notes on what she likes. Then, go back and get one of these things, and it's like a magic trick. You got her exactly what she wanted. If she says she doesnt want presents, then get here something little, that she already picked out for you. So easy it's pathetic.
 

immrtlwun

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Get her something with sentimental value, as opposed to monetary value. You can probably give her something that costs less than $5 as long as you can make a back story for it. I got my girlfriend a stuffed dog for like $5 and told her it was so she had something to cuddle with when I wasn't around and she loved it. So basically get her something simple with sentimental value.
 
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