"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girlfriend birthday....present?

SamMalone

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Girl I've been seeing for two months. We've been having sex since the first night she came over two months ago. She says she doesn't like presents so I don't think I should get anything big. Any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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CD, Poster, Card, Dinner, ..... Something simple. If you picked one of those they are pretty inexpensive.
 

horaholic

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This ones easy. Go window shopping. Hang out with her, and go to the mall, swap meet, other stores, or wherever, and take notes on what she likes. Then, go back and get one of these things, and it's like a magic trick. You got her exactly what she wanted. If she says she doesnt want presents, then get here something little, that she already picked out for you. So easy it's pathetic.
 

immrtlwun

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Get her something with sentimental value, as opposed to monetary value. You can probably give her something that costs less than $5 as long as you can make a back story for it. I got my girlfriend a stuffed dog for like $5 and told her it was so she had something to cuddle with when I wasn't around and she loved it. So basically get her something simple with sentimental value.
 
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