"Girlfriend" banged dude behind my back

[Capt.America]

Me and my gf were having sexual issues. at least I thought. I would see that she wasn't being pleasured the way she want nd I talk to her about it. she insisted that the sex was fine and that she wouldn't leave me and that if it became a real problem we wud buy dildos. I still felt she was lying so I told her to go bang another dude and see if I was the problem . she said ok (even though I wudve rather her say "no I cant imagine banging anotha dude but u) so she hit up a friend and asked him to set up an "experimental sex session" with a trusted friend of his . then I broke up with her cause of that

she got upset and said she wasn't gonna do it but then I told her to go ahead. day before she was gonna do it I told her not to. I saw that since she was willing to go bang someone to prove that she would still want me after sex that I should believe her. surprisingly she still insisted on doing it even though I kept telling her to not do it cause I believe. I woke up tis morning with a text saying she did it and dat the sex was alright and she still wanted me

what to do.. is this a sign of disrespect even though she banged him while not being together and should I even be mad ?

too long to read: I thought sex was bad with girlfriend, broke up, told her to bang friend of a friend to see if its me and to decide if she wants to continue sexing and being with me. she agreed so that she can prove me wrong. last minute I told her to not do it anymore because ill believe that she likes sex with me. she still went ahead and did it . what to do

 

[Betterz]

What to do?? Dump her and run asap

 

[Tiguere]

Now its your turn to taste a guys c0ck. Give a a guy a bl0wj0b and see how goodbit stimulates you.... If it positively stimulates you have him rail you from behind.


Maybe just maybe you are having a relationship with the wrong gender.










TROLLOLOL

 

[marmel75]

Wtf?

Why would you not make it a point to learn how to be better at sex instead of telling her to go sleep with someone else?

This is the sh!t I'm talking about. Guys will go to great lengths to improve at things...go to the gym, dress well,haircut, style, DJ mindset, etc but don't take time to learn how to be better at sex. Makes no sense to me.

Go get 2 Women Teach Sex and watch all the videos or download the torrent. You and your gf can thank me later. Hopefully at that point its a different gf...

 

[Capt.America]

Wtf?

Why would you not make it a point to learn how to be better at sex instead of telling her to go sleep with someone else?

This is the sh!t I'm talking about. Guys will go to great lengths to improve at things...go to the gym, dress well,haircut, style, DJ mindset, etc but don't take time to learn how to be better at sex. Makes no sense to me.

Go get 2 Women Teach Sex and watch all the videos or download the torrent. You and your gf can thank me later. Hopefully at that point its a different gf...

I swear this isn't a troll post, and so u think I shouldn't take her baxck?

honestly she has been a really good gf. theres a reason why I chose to be with her.she does most of the things I asked. cooks for me, cleans, takes me out , etc etc.
ive been ignoring her texts which say that she only did it because she felt it was the only way I would actually believe her.

Part of me thinks I can take her back given the reason why she did it an the fact that we aren't exclusive cause I broke up with her

but part of me feels that regardless if shes my GF or not if she liked me as she said she did she would listen to my word and not go against it.

Please honest and unbiased answers. this isn't a troll post, I have no time to troll on a forum while preparing myself for law school

 

[djthiago1]

How to eat pssy like a champ.

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=675440848

 

[AllDay85]

I'm confused who the woman was in the relationship?

 

[Capt.America]

No I broke up wit my GF so she can go have experimental sex with a friend of her friend to see if she would rather go fck other dudes and not be wit me anymore. Last minute I told her I don't want her to anymore but she still did it so she was my ex wen she did it. comtemplsting if this is disrespect or if I am overreacting and if I should take her bac. she was a really good gf but I would always push my insecurities down on her so idk

 

[LMFAO]

Seriously, how old are you?

 

[Capt.America]

Seriously, how old are you?

24 sir

 

[LMFAO]

She had sex with another guy.

Not all girls are girlfriend material you have to understand. Some are just slvts, or have bpd.

SHE'S NOT GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL.

You need to accept that as your first step.

Second step is you need to decide what to do with her. Downgrade her to f*** buddy or don't speak to her ever again. She will f*** other guys and she will disrespect you for any other kind of relationship.

If you want her as a f*** buddy, just meet her once a week for sex.

If she brings up the "what are we" bollocks talk then tell her you're disappointed that you need to talk about it and see as things working out well and you rather it reach the point naturally and in previous relationships you set time limits with the ex and it messed things up.

 

[Desdinova]

I told her to go bang another dude and see if I was the problem

then I broke up with her cause of that

You told her to go do something, and now you're all pissy because she did it? Suck it up and take responsibility for this.

 

[Krueg]

Don't take her back.. See how easy it was for her to go and sleep with someone else!? She is not that interested in you, or atleast isnt serious about being with you. She wants to have her cake and eat it too!

Find a girl who actually likes you, find one who likes to give and isnt taking all the time! Good Luck.

 

[BraddH]

Sex is never bad with someone you are attracted to.

 

[Thorninmyside]

This story is as crazy as dudes who hide in the closet jacking off while some other dudes bangs their girl. Captain, you need to hand in your shield. You've now taught this girl that whenever she doesn't like the milk at home, she can go get another cow and still come back saying it "wasn't that good".

 

[VladPatton]

Ever tell a kid not to stick a fork in a wall outlet? What's the first thing he wants to do after you tell him that? You guessed it...stick a motherfückin fork in a wall outlet. You suggested it, she dug the idea, her taco got squishy, she executed, end of story.

Work on some serious sexy time with your girl and never speak of this disaster of an experience. Your second option is to nuke the situation. Dump her and be done with it all.

 

[Suspens]

[...]that if it became a real problem we wud buy dildos. [...]

That was fvcking hilarious.

I would keep her as a friend, such great sense of humor.

 

[Zarky]

I remember doing goofy sh*t like this when I was late teens and early 20s.

Don't worry OP, as you get older, you make fewer retarded decisions. That's fortunate, because the retarded decisions you do make have much worse consequences.

 

[Epimanes]

So...your gf can casually just go fvck someone else like its another ride at the fair and no big deal.. That sir is a huge red flag. If your girl told you out of anger it was ok to go fvck someone else and you did it..like it was no big deal.. What kind of reaction would you expect her to have if you told her you went ahead and did it just to experiment?

Think about that.... Really hard. Then I think you will have your answer as to what you should do.

Someone please pass the popcorn...

Epi

 

[vinkoch]

Wow ok so you really messed up here. Your mistake was not insisting to watch. I mean how are you supposed to know if she liked it better than sex with you unless you saw for yourself. Ask her to do it again and demand you can evaluate the sex by witnessing it. Also make sure there are many men so that you can fairly evaluate how likely it is that she can have better sex with another dude.