"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girlfriend and ex-boyfriend's phone numbers?

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Do your girlfriend's have their ex-boyfriend's phone numbers? Not only did she, and claimed she forgot to delete it. Then she jumped on me when I deleted it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How come you deleted it? that might not have been a smooth move, she might think you were jealous or something.....
I know i keep a lot of my ex's phone numbers, i imagine chiks are the same.
 
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caesar_ragsti said:
How come you deleted it? that might not have been a smooth move, she might think you were jealous or something.....
I know i keep a lot of my ex's phone numbers, i imagine chiks are the same.
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You're right. And you know that girls his age value having lists upon lists of friends in general. Just to prove it, have a look at her MySpace page, she probably still have a few of her exs still listed as friends.
 
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