"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girlfriend and ex-boyfriend's phone numbers?

Bling

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Do your girlfriend's have their ex-boyfriend's phone numbers? Not only did she, and claimed she forgot to delete it. Then she jumped on me when I deleted it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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caesar_ragsti

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How come you deleted it? that might not have been a smooth move, she might think you were jealous or something.....
I know i keep a lot of my ex's phone numbers, i imagine chiks are the same.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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caesar_ragsti said:
How come you deleted it? that might not have been a smooth move, she might think you were jealous or something.....
I know i keep a lot of my ex's phone numbers, i imagine chiks are the same.
You're right. And you know that girls his age value having lists upon lists of friends in general. Just to prove it, have a look at her MySpace page, she probably still have a few of her exs still listed as friends.
 
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