thedude4242
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jophil28 said:Cheating does not start when the zippers pop open at 2am.
Cheating exists along a continuum and it begins when one person in a relationship turns to an opposite sex third party for emotional safisfaction or attention.
She works with him, she has a crush on him and she spends time "always chatting with him online......nights and weekends." Three red flags there ..Ding !
you are exactly right on that. most men want to know "did you do anything with him" meaning something sexual even a kiss. but you can cheat on someone emotionally. that is why a lot of people let it get to the point right before cheating in a sexual way. people think cheating is something physically or sexual. can you imagine your girl never having sex with someone, but a lot of stuff is said and the feelings are there. that can be just as bad, because you actually want to.