Girlfriend acting like im the second coming of Jesus

[KindredSpiritzz]

yeah that'll disappear after awhile. I was the greatest thing since sliced bread for 8 months before that went poof.

 

[derby1]

She's also after my genes because she's always saying she wants a baby that looks like me (I'm white but tan, she's latina but not dark skinned for a latina).

The TRAP IS PRIMED.

 

[Lookatu]

I could see a lot of guys hating on you right now... LOL

 

[Lookatu]

My girlfriend always hypes me up as a man, that I am a GREAT man, the best man she's ever known, a gift from God to her ( she's half religious you know them latinas).

If you haven't jizzed in her mouth, azz, pvssy and haven't had any p2m or a2m action then those are just words and you aren't the second coming of Jesus(or if she's Latina, maybe Jesus was her first BF and she was referencing him?). Remember action over words.

 

[Harry Wilmington IDS]

Maaaaan... it's clear many dudes on here haven't dated a woman with very high interest level before, lol

To the OP: Doc Love used to talk about this exact thing. When women have a 90% or higher interest level in you, this is the type of thing they do. They are so bursting with like for you, combined with feeling loved and cared for, that they can't help but express it in a variety of ways, be it more sex, doing favors for you, or verbalizing ad nausea how much they love and appreciate you.

Women tend to be wordier than men are (27,000 words per day spoken vs. 9,000 for men), so of course, she's going to say nice things about you regularly. If you've known her for as long as you have and haven't seen any major red flags that could indicate doing this to use you in some way, then yeah - it's to be expected based on how much she likes you.

 

[One_Punch_Man]

your situation is different but somewhat of that happened to me recently. The girl kept praising me again and again like you are too good, you can have any girl as your partner but what do you find so special about me. I took the bait and praised her a slight bit and and after that she slowly started to pull away.

 

[JayAce]

^^^

I had a woman do this to me for a few months. A few years back. 3 months of straight love bombing. I started to fall for her pretty hard and then one day she was a different person and her eyes were stone cold towards me. It was like someone zapped the old her out of her when in hindsight she was just putting on an act for those few months.

I’ll never forget that cold stare

 

[B80]

your situation is different but somewhat of that happened to me recently. The girl kept praising me again and again like you are too good, you can have any girl as your partner but what do you find so special about me. I took the bait and praised her a slight bit and and after that she slowly started to pull away.

out of interest, how were you praising her and how often?

such a weird thing isn't.

 

[King Lion]

My girlfriend always hypes me up as a man, that I am a GREAT man, the best man she's ever known, a gift from God to her ( she's half religious you know them latinas). We've been together for a year. That she gets so much help, support and love from me blabla. She also compliments my looks quite often. I always wonder if this is a good thing. Aren't you supposed to be also kindof a ****head? She does say I am sometimes hard on her.

Appreciate her and enjoy it...The best woman for a man is the woman that truly appreciates him...Honor her sentiments!

 

[One_Punch_Man]

out of interest, how were you praising her and how often?

such a weird thing isn't.

Well that happened suddenly and to her every praise i would praise her back. But after some time i got carried away and started over praising her like:-

Her- You are perfect any girl will want you as partner. What do you find so interesting in me.
Me- I like a lot of things about you.
Her- Like what. What are you looking for in a girl.
Me- You are this and that you are perfect for me. and so and so

Then i became needy and started asking if she liked me. To which she again gave clever reply like why would a girl not like you. you would never hurt a girl etc. etc.
But her actions are speaking something else. She does not pick the phone and after that day has not replied to my messages with great enthusiasm. It might me she is playing hard to get but what else is there in her to chase except for body and ****ty attitude.

 

[B80]

Well that happened suddenly and to her every praise i would praise her back. But after some time i got carried away and started over praising her like:-

Her- You are perfect any girl will want you as partner. What do you find so interesting in me.
Me- I like a lot of things about you.
Her- Like what. What are you looking for in a girl.
Me- You are this and that you are perfect for me. and so and so

Then i became needy and started asking if she liked me. To which she again gave clever reply like why would a girl not like you. you would never hurt a girl etc. etc.
But her actions are speaking something else. She does not pick the phone and after that day has not replied to my messages with great enthusiasm. It might me she is playing hard to get but what else is there in her to chase except for body and ****ty attitude.

Sorry to hear that mate, funnybold game isn't it..

Sounds like this is where it went wrong, from my limited expertise

'Then i became needy and started asking if she liked me.'

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well that happened suddenly and to her every praise i would praise her back. But after some time i got carried away and started over praising her like:-

Her- You are perfect any girl will want you as partner. What do you find so interesting in me.
Me- I like a lot of things about you.
Her- Like what. What are you looking for in a girl.
Me- You are this and that you are perfect for me. and so and so

Then i became needy and started asking if she liked me. To which she again gave clever reply like why would a girl not like you. you would never hurt a girl etc. etc.
But her actions are speaking something else. She does not pick the phone and after that day has not replied to my messages with great enthusiasm. It might me she is playing hard to get but what else is there in her to chase except for body and ****ty attitude.

That sh1tty attitude affects their aura which become disgusting over time.

 

[Kotaix]

I'm in a somewhat similar situation myself. My current gf thinks I'm extremely attractive and compliments me often, while also telling me how lucky she is to have me and that she wouldn't trade me for anything or any of her exes. I will sometimes say stuff that sounds extremely ****y just for the fun of it, she rolls her eyes at me and puts me down, but it's all in jest. She knows I'm not arrogant and I know she's just joking. I rarely if ever compliment her looks, I just grab her ass when I walk past.

One thing I think is worth mentioning is that the current gf is a very rare find in that she doesn't ever seem to have been broken by life (gets along well with her father, has never been abused)

 

[bat soup]

My girlfriend always hypes me up as a man, that I am a GREAT man, the best man she's ever known, a gift from God to her ( she's half religious you know them latinas). We've been together for a year. That she gets so much help, support and love from me blabla. She also compliments my looks quite often. I always wonder if this is a good thing. Aren't you supposed to be also kindof a ****head? She does say I am sometimes hard on her.

Just out of curiosity - are you actually the second coming of Jesus? If so, then she's acting appropriately.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Just out of curiosity - are you actually the second coming of Jesus? If so, then she's acting appropriately.

On a good day I am bro.