Hi all, I have been with my girlfriend for a month (just had our anniversary) and on tuesday she had dinner with me and spent the night at my house. She bought me some cereal for breakfast, as well as new garbage can, and she left her pillow as well as toothbrush at my house. However, it seemed like that day she wasn't touching me as much but we did eventually make out and do everything but sex (we both promised to wait). On Wednesday morning, her car broke down and she was distraught, so I comforted her and was there for her (even missed few hrs of work) to make sure car was fixed so that she was all safe and sound. She also apologized twice for being a little groggy on Tuesday night due to having rough day at work that day. Adn we hugged and kissed. She said she'd call when her phone was re-charged, which she did that night. We talked for a few minutes ( I played it as cool as possible) Wednesday night and then said she'd call tommorrow (Thursday Night). I didn't hear from her Thursday night, so I called her yesterday morning to ask her out for Sunday. She answered the phone from work, but she sounded a little distant but however, she did accept the date and I told her to bring her clothes as well. Do you think the fact that she was a little distant on the phone on friday morning and the fact that she forgot to call on thursday night (before I called her on it, she said that she went to bed early that night) is a red flag, or am I just being insecure?? Thanks.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girlfriend acting distant/cold
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Solomon
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aek70850 said:
ROFLLLLLLLLL @ a month anniversary
bwhahahahaha
seriosuly though, sounds to me like she is just stressed out, cars can do that, trust me i know
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wasn't there a Cosby episode that addressed this?Solomon said:
Anniversary - comes from the word "annual", meaning "1 year"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.