Hi all, I have been with my girlfriend for a month (just had our anniversary) and on tuesday she had dinner with me and spent the night at my house. She bought me some cereal for breakfast, as well as new garbage can, and she left her pillow as well as toothbrush at my house. However, it seemed like that day she wasn't touching me as much but we did eventually make out and do everything but sex (we both promised to wait). On Wednesday morning, her car broke down and she was distraught, so I comforted her and was there for her (even missed few hrs of work) to make sure car was fixed so that she was all safe and sound. She also apologized twice for being a little groggy on Tuesday night due to having rough day at work that day. Adn we hugged and kissed. She said she'd call when her phone was re-charged, which she did that night. We talked for a few minutes ( I played it as cool as possible) Wednesday night and then said she'd call tommorrow (Thursday Night). I didn't hear from her Thursday night, so I called her yesterday morning to ask her out for Sunday. She answered the phone from work, but she sounded a little distant but however, she did accept the date and I told her to bring her clothes as well. Do you think the fact that she was a little distant on the phone on friday morning and the fact that she forgot to call on thursday night (before I called her on it, she said that she went to bed early that night) is a red flag, or am I just being insecure?? Thanks.
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aek70850 said:
ROFLLLLLLLLL @ a month anniversary
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seriosuly though, sounds to me like she is just stressed out, cars can do that, trust me i know
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wasn't there a Cosby episode that addressed this?Solomon said:
Anniversary - comes from the word "annual", meaning "1 year"
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