"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There is this one girl that is always rude to me, however this other girl told me she is rude to this girl because she is rude to me. Is she interested in me, to what extent?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She is testing you to see if you have any backbone or how you will react to her. B!tches talk sh!t, b!tch get chewed out!
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
She is testing you to see if you have any backbone or how you will react to her. B!tches talk sh!t, b!tch get chewed out!

Backbone? You mean spineless? I didn't really react in anyway to what she said, I just didn't say anything.
 

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you should tell the nice girl that she doesn't have to sink to the rude chicks level. tell her you are civilized and don't like the other chick because she is rude, crude or socially unacceptable and that you saw her spit on some cheap red carpet before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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To be honest...

This could have caused it...I have gone out of my way to help her, maybe she is returning the favor. In the past she was touching me, but it was an accident. According to her she said she did not have any romantic interest in me, but this was the past. She was touching me a lot recentely, I will just have to ask her if the touching is real?
 

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Why?

Why do you not think I am telling the truth, what do you believe is the case? I have been called hot by her before. What should I do with her? I'd like some advice.
 

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She has a boyfriend

What should I do? I was thinking of making moves on her.
 
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