"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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crossboss

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There is this one girl that is always rude to me, however this other girl told me she is rude to this girl because she is rude to me. Is she interested in me, to what extent?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She is testing you to see if you have any backbone or how you will react to her. B!tches talk sh!t, b!tch get chewed out!
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
She is testing you to see if you have any backbone or how you will react to her. B!tches talk sh!t, b!tch get chewed out!

Backbone? You mean spineless? I didn't really react in anyway to what she said, I just didn't say anything.
 

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you should tell the nice girl that she doesn't have to sink to the rude chicks level. tell her you are civilized and don't like the other chick because she is rude, crude or socially unacceptable and that you saw her spit on some cheap red carpet before.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To be honest...

This could have caused it...I have gone out of my way to help her, maybe she is returning the favor. In the past she was touching me, but it was an accident. According to her she said she did not have any romantic interest in me, but this was the past. She was touching me a lot recentely, I will just have to ask her if the touching is real?
 

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Why?

Why do you not think I am telling the truth, what do you believe is the case? I have been called hot by her before. What should I do with her? I'd like some advice.
 

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She has a boyfriend

What should I do? I was thinking of making moves on her.
 
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