Girl with Psychology degree

[My Name is Nobody]

Has anyone ever dated a girl with education focused on psychology?

Wow, they know the game. And play it to a TEE. Seems fitting, no doubt.

They will rip out your mind and stomp on it, right along with your heart, if you're not careful.

Unless you realize what they are doing, and beat them at their own game.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

How about singers?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Has anyone ever dated a girl with education focused on psychology?

Wow, they know the game. And play it to a TEE. Seems fitting, no doubt.

They will rip out your mind and stomp on it, right along with your heart, if you're not careful.

Unless you realize what they are doing, and beat them at their own game.

FYI, when dealing with psychologist there isn't much reason to play games; you just end up looking as silly as every other AFC that tried to play games with them.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Francisco, you the man.

I just had to get that out of the way.

She's the one playing games. And I'm the one beating her at her own games

Refer to my other thread about "penetrating the shield".

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Yes. But the goal here is to dissect your character, and still have the woman fiending for you.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Francisco, you the man.

I just had to get that out of the way.

She's the one playing games. And I'm the one beating her at her own games

Refer to my other thread about "penetrating the shield".

Talk about getting some really good field practice. I bet she's trying to treat you like every other "average" guy and you keep throwing her curve balls making her even more frustrated (and interested).

 

[DJDamage]

She's the one playing games. And I'm the one beating her at her own games
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I am curious to what kind of games?!

Personally almost every women out there thinks she is a psychologist so it doesn't really make a difference if she is a proffessional or not. The key here is interest levels. Women tend to be hijacked by very intense emotions and when that happens, Freud or whomever she based her rules on tend to fly out the window.

Watch the movie "Departed" and see how a woman psychlogist is no different then any other woman.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I am curious to what kind of games?!

Personally almost every women out there thinks she is a psychologist so it doesn't really make a difference if she is a professional or not. The key here is interest levels. Women tend to be hijacked by very intense emotions and when that happens, Freud or whomever she based her rules on tend to fly out the window.

Watch the movie "Departed" and see how a woman psychologist is no different then any other woman.

Don't let your typical woman on the street or the media lull you into believing that women are equally knowledgeable psychologically. There's even a difference between women who have studied psychology and those who practice it for a living.

A RAFC could work his way around a typical woman on the street but I wouldn't necessarily expect him to handle a psychology student well and I'd tell him to run for the hills if an actual Psychologist approached him. A DJ on the other hand could handle the standard woman and a psychology student pretty well but unless he knows the "rules" of psychotherapy, he could find himself a bit over his head with many psychologist (if she sees him as a possible case of study).

 

[woods]

I was with a psychology major for a year. They really know how to manipulate. They invest their life into studying human reactions, and they know how to cover up lies, and see through you. To top it all off, her roomate was a practising lawyer, and they fought like brother and sister, so she has learned how to argue, and control situations, and turn shyt around on you from years of living with this guy.
I could not ever win, it was crazy. She was like Hannibal Lecter, and My Cousin Vinnie rolled into an HB9! (bad examples, but true)

 

[diplomatic_lies]

I've done psychology subjects at college, and have friends who majored in psych, and dated girls with psych degrees.

Let me tell you something: Having a psychology degree makes almost no difference in human interaction.

They may pretend to be experts on human interaction. You may believe them. But the fact is, they're not. Most psychology studies focus on mental disorders (ie. sociopathy, multiple personality, etc) and advanced research, No reputable college/university will have "Picking Up Chicks 101" as a psych subject.

Besides, nearly everything you learn in psychology about human interaction is common sense. It doesn't take a genius to realise most people have an innate desire to fit into the group, or that boredom is usually an internal rather than external cause.

 

[resilient]

Challenge is her kryptonite.

Keep being aloof and sincerely busy and that will give her enough to frustrate her further.

One important thing I wanted to say that others touched on was the games. If you stoop to her level playing into jealousy/control frames and such than you're lowering yourself to her level.

To remain alpha, call her out in a calm assertive manner that you don't appreciate the way she's trying to manipulate you or disrespect you. You'll earn a lot of power back in your court along with your self-respect. I'm there with you man, it's something I'm learning I have to do in my relationship to stay inter-dependent.

Women tend to have more dating knowledge then men since it's their playing field, but don't get discouraged because all of this is training your DJ instincts to think on your feet as you get older and you'll become wiser.

Always be prepared to walk away (because you know you can if you really wanted to).

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

i am doing psychology at a level in college
trust me u learn so much its unbelievable, everything that we do its 2 do with our experiences.
They will analyze everything u do, yes, but they are just another human, if they do anyalize u they r more likely 2 understand u cos they understand human mind, trust me.
Psychology makes u a better person, i love it, am sure the girls will do the same.

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

Even if she is junior psychologist or a full-fledged professional, she is going to be putty in the hands of a real man. A real man won't give a fvck if she's analyzing him, he'll be out doing his own thing and she'll be his little sex toy.

If you're an insecure little AFC prancing around as an alpha male she'll see right through you and that will be that. But even she won't be able to overcome her emotions in the presence of a real MAN.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Talk about getting some really good field practice. I bet she's trying to treat you like every other "average" guy and you keep throwing her curve balls making her even more frustrated (and interested).

^^

My gut is telling me this is exactly the case. And usually my gut never lies.


We had another chat, and I think it went well. She's sticking to the "not ready" story and I'm going with it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

^^

My gut is telling me this is exactly the case. And usually my gut never lies.


We had another chat, and I think it went well. She's sticking to the "not ready" story and I'm going with it.

I'm missing something here, not ready for what?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I'm missing something here, not ready for what?

"Not ready for dating".

What do you think?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Ahhhhh, so what is she doing? Nah, that doesn't really matter anyway. The question is whether or not you care. You can still get laid by a woman you aren't dating.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Ahhhhh, so what is she doing? Nah, that doesn't really matter anyway. The question is whether or not you care. You can still get laid by a woman you aren't dating.

Good question. Being on a dating site and all.

I really want to not care. I'm talking to someone else besides her and really trying not to care.

 

[Last Man Standing]

"Not ready for dating".

What do you think?

Every woman is ready for "dating" - she just doesn't want to 'date' you!

 

[Doc Dogg]

No reputable college/university will have "Picking Up Chicks 101" as a psych subject.

Hehe, they will if I have something to say about it

Seriously, there is a massive need for some well trained psychologists to work with people on their relationship issues, picking up, finding the RIGHT mate and not just getting what you can and settling for it. Therefore there is a need for research and education on the subject. There is some absolute gold in these forums and others that would make some Universities an absolute squillion if they formalised it and made it into a salable package.

It is barely tapped resource that I will be taking advantage of in the future