"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl with good traits but long distance? Should go for LTR?

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- very attractive, cute face and model-like body, great skin and hair
- nerdy, introvert, easy to talk to
- virgin
- 7 years younger than me, I'm going to be 31
- caring, kind
- smart

Been friends with her for two years. She liked me but I was in a relationship until 10 months ago. Now she lives 300 miles away but can manage to see each other every weekend or every other weekend.

Doable?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Of course it's doable if she is willing to move close. Long distance doesn't work. If she's into you, she will do ANYTHING to be close.
 
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Thanks Ruler and El Suave for replying. I appreciate the idea of spinning plates but would like to have a LTR before settling down in a few years. Feels like she could be the one, but have to work out the distance. Right now she's quite into me, and mentions the opportunities to move to my city in a year. I'm a lawyer and she's still in school (science PhD) so she has more flexibility to move than me. We met in school four years ago and became really close friends in the last two years. I broke up with my ex more or less because of her though. I like her a lot, but if a LTR doesn't work out again then I will be maybe 33+ or so and still single.
 
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