"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl with good traits but long distance? Should go for LTR?

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- very attractive, cute face and model-like body, great skin and hair
- nerdy, introvert, easy to talk to
- virgin
- 7 years younger than me, I'm going to be 31
- caring, kind
- smart

Been friends with her for two years. She liked me but I was in a relationship until 10 months ago. Now she lives 300 miles away but can manage to see each other every weekend or every other weekend.

Doable?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Of course it's doable if she is willing to move close. Long distance doesn't work. If she's into you, she will do ANYTHING to be close.
 
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Thanks Ruler and El Suave for replying. I appreciate the idea of spinning plates but would like to have a LTR before settling down in a few years. Feels like she could be the one, but have to work out the distance. Right now she's quite into me, and mentions the opportunities to move to my city in a year. I'm a lawyer and she's still in school (science PhD) so she has more flexibility to move than me. We met in school four years ago and became really close friends in the last two years. I broke up with my ex more or less because of her though. I like her a lot, but if a LTR doesn't work out again then I will be maybe 33+ or so and still single.
 
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