girl with depression?

[ludovic991]

A girl who is depressed, anxious, etc is definitely not a red flag (barring more sinister mental disorders like BPD). However, any girl who on medication is a red flag. Why? Because it almost guarantees that she is incapable of solving her own problems through critical thinking and self-reflection and acccountability, instead opting to maintain her victimhood status while indefinitely avoiding accountability. Taking medication is not a solution to your problems. If someone has issues so severe that medication is genuinely the only option (unlikely), then they is in fact too damaged invite into your life anyway.

And I would say the same applies for men, if they have functional depression, women should give them a chance, but if their solution to "depression" is action faking horseshvt like therapy and medication, women should not date them.

You say people with depression deserve a chance, but those who seek treatment don’t? How does that make sense? Recognizing a problem and getting help can actually show self-awareness and responsibility. I know plenty of people with depression who function really well. My mate’s girlfriend even went to Profound Treatment to get professional help working through some personal challenges and understanding her emotions. There’s nothing shameful about that. Honestly, I’d be more concerned about someone who refuses to work on their issues than someone who takes medication. Just get to know her and see how she treats people. Being on antidepressants alone doesn’t tell you what kind of partner someone will be.