"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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servo1234567

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I've got a problem with a pretty good girl. I like this chick and she likes me but we're not really in a great situation. She's been seeing a guy for about a year and a half. She's got a pretty good guy for a boyfriend. I like him and actually we're friends. We talk everyday. Lately she's been flirting with me, talking to me, and very active on msn messenger with me. I sent her an e-mail and she was very quick about responding. I was actually e-mailing to ask about a friend of hers but it changed quickly when she started talking. We've been talking a while and I found out she's not doing anything tomorrow. Should I ask her to do something?
I like her but I don't really know how moral I'm being about spending time with another guy's chick.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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servo1234567

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Update:

I asked her to go with me tomorrow and she said she would if her boyfriend didn't get mad. I think I'm still going but it's probably a better idea to hold off on her for now. She knows I'm interested and if she is so can make the next move.
 

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Thats a difficult decision man. Do you value the friendship of her boyfriend? I can almost guarentee if "anything" at all happens between you and the chick your going to lose a friend. I have been in the same situation and it turned out horrible. When you said "We talk everyday" was that you and her or you and her boyfriend. If your put in the position where you have the opportunity to talk to her bf every day (sit next to him in school etc...) I really think it would be a bad idea. I'm not the one to make the decision though. Just think everything out before you do something you regret.

Good luck with your decision
 

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I say go out and find nice poontang that isn't taken.
 

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I agree with lik, and would like to add... "He who takes a womans pootang that is already taken, recieves a whoopin."

So basically only something bad could happen from this. Go find you another girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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