"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok, so ive been talking to this beautiful 9 lately and its been going really well. She's 18 and a freshman in college and im 20 and a sophomore. She is Columbian and seems like one of those sweet girly good girls. Everytime she sees me approach she smiles at me, she smiles and/or laughs throughout our conversations as I keep it light, flirty, and funny and in general seems to enjoy them. Her body language is good as she occasionally plays with her hair, looks down, smiles, and fidgets a bit. The only problem is that after the 4th time we had spoken, she mentioned she had a boyfriend back in Columbia. You know, a long distance sort of deal. Well, it came up casually, its not like she intended for it to mean, "Get away, I have a bf". Anyway, in my biased opinion she is too young to be so damn committed to someone so far away. I think she is amazing and want to proceed with her but dont know how. I figure its dangerous ground, if I come on too strong it could be bad and if I act like a tool for too long I will end up in the friend zone forever. The only reason im sticking around is because I have a gut feeling she is somewhat interested. HELP!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I stick the fvck away from messing with anyone from columbia, puerto rico and **** like that. But that's just me :p :p


Just go ahead if you want too and see.
 
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Wow. This is probably the fifth topic I've seen about a LDR girl in the past two days, and that's how long I've been here! The general consensus: Go for it, steal her, you have nothing to lose, just don't focus too much in case it doesn't work.
 
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Read the bible...it will teach you how. I'm surprised you haven't considered it. She is no different from any other girl in the world...so the same thing applies here.
 
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i think if she's mildly interested in you, the boyfriend destroyer pattern would be very effective.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well dude, most likely she wouldn't mind getting you as a fbuddy. don't look for a relationship from this foreign biotch!
 
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