"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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phoreus1911

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okay, so I'm in this position where I like this girl, but she's taken. I would very much like to be with her. I got close, but they ended up staying together. I bumped into her today, we talked, I noted how her hair changed and she said that I should hit her up to work out sometime. I want to have a chance with her. How do I set myself up so that when or if she breaks up with her boyfriend, I am next or something. sorry, it's rather sordid, but she has given me signals
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'll tell you right now you have no chance.

Why? Because you believe that chance comes from her.

The power cannot come from her but something you already possess from within. That is the liberation of your mind.

Whether you know it or not you are doing this countless times throughout the day. It has to be a conscious battle you fight, but ultimately it becomes something unconscious you exhibit and your life begins to change.

Do yourself a favor right now and just completely stop thinking about her, thinking about getting together with her, etc. Find more fun and abundance with other women and forget this kind of thinking.
 

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I see. If it isn't too much trouble, do you mind looking at this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182998

this is the entirety of the situation. Again, thank you for your help. I'm no "Don Juan" I'm a regular guy who is confused. I know at some point I do have to forget about her, I can accept this, I just want to make sure that there is no stone left unturned, and if there is a chance, I want to take it no matter how risky it is. I know this sounds needy, but I feel that this is worth it for some reason.
 
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