"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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okay, so I'm in this position where I like this girl, but she's taken. I would very much like to be with her. I got close, but they ended up staying together. I bumped into her today, we talked, I noted how her hair changed and she said that I should hit her up to work out sometime. I want to have a chance with her. How do I set myself up so that when or if she breaks up with her boyfriend, I am next or something. sorry, it's rather sordid, but she has given me signals
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'll tell you right now you have no chance.

Why? Because you believe that chance comes from her.

The power cannot come from her but something you already possess from within. That is the liberation of your mind.

Whether you know it or not you are doing this countless times throughout the day. It has to be a conscious battle you fight, but ultimately it becomes something unconscious you exhibit and your life begins to change.

Do yourself a favor right now and just completely stop thinking about her, thinking about getting together with her, etc. Find more fun and abundance with other women and forget this kind of thinking.
 
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I see. If it isn't too much trouble, do you mind looking at this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182998

this is the entirety of the situation. Again, thank you for your help. I'm no "Don Juan" I'm a regular guy who is confused. I know at some point I do have to forget about her, I can accept this, I just want to make sure that there is no stone left unturned, and if there is a chance, I want to take it no matter how risky it is. I know this sounds needy, but I feel that this is worth it for some reason.
 
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