Girl with boyfriend gave me her number

[bat soup]

I’m not reaching out again. If I bump into her in person somewhere I’ll lay on some charm but keep it light and quick.

Just thought this was a good little experiment and practice, but I’m not gonna pursue her. If she reaches out I know it’s go time.

I disagree with your strategy here. You should find out whether she's interested or not ASAP rather than holding on and waiting for her.

If you escalate and she rejects you, now you know. You could find out tonight. But if you wait 6 months and she says "hi how are you" you're gonna be in exactly the same place as you are now months/years into the future.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

She was an instructor for a training course I was in earlier this week so we’re in a similar line of work. Mid 20’s and carried herself well. I have some status in this context and built some rapport with her throughout. Anyway, sent her a DM the next day.

Me: “Hey good job instructing yesterday. We should hang out sometime, maybe grab a drink. What’s your number?”

Her: “Thanks, I appreciate it! I should let you know I have a boyfriend but definitely always down to do either of those things my number is …”

Classic modern women. 1. Wants free attention 2. Is a *****

Take D out and find out.

 

[RickPound]

I disagree with your strategy here. You should find out whether she's interested or not ASAP rather than holding on and waiting for her.

If you escalate and she rejects you, now you know. You could find out tonight. But if you wait 6 months and she says "hi how are you" you're gonna be in exactly the same place as you are now months/years into the future.

I’m not holding on. I asked her schedule last week to try and get her out (or to my place) but she didn’t respond so it’s done. I might be able to get away with one more attempt but I don’t like doing that ****.

Classic modern women. 1. Wants free attention 2. Is a *****

Take D out and find out.

If she does come around I’m certainly escalating

 

[2Rocky]

@RickPound

I recall as a young man in college (20 + years ago), I attended a state industry convention (as labor ) where I met up with a temp secretary who might have been older than I but still young and firm. With the combination of alcohol and dancing at the hosted bar we found ourselves en flagrante delicto in a hotel room.

The next night she invited the whole student group to her house where I met her husband and child (children?) She mouthed to me "I'm so sorry" as I politely shook his hand. My point is that if she really wants you, she's not going to bother with inconvenient details.

 

[RickPound]

@RickPound

I recall as a young man in college (20 + years ago), I attended a state industry convention (as labor ) where I met up with a temp secretary who might have been older than I but still young and firm. With the combination of alcohol and dancing at the hosted bar we found ourselves en flagrante delicto in a hotel room.

The next night she invited the whole student group to her house where I met her husband and child (children?) She mouthed to me "I'm so sorry" as I politely shook his hand. My point is that if she really wants you, she's not going to bother with inconvenient details.

Oh I know. That’s a good story. I’m getting to the point where nothing surprises me with women these days.

She knows how to get ahold of me.

 

[zekko]

A word of caution though. She's giving you the "yellow light. " She safe-guarded herself with the boy friend remark; which could be or could not be true. It's better than a red light, but it's also not green.

There's always a chance she might want to bring him along lol.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I’m not holding on. I asked her schedule last week to try and get her out (or to my place) but she didn’t respond so it’s done. I might be able to get away with one more attempt but I don’t like doing that ****.



If she does come around I’m certainly escalating

Seriously, the game is all going out, trial and error. Acquire compliance or disregard. I dont chase. I replace. Work abundance. Lots of volume. Dtf or #next!

As for I have a bf is perfect for "cool. Bring your friends." Water off a ducks back. Troll even (lightly ). Use geordie/jersey shore talk. Call her bro. Throw in at some point "your like one of the boys/guys." Point out her masculine behavior. A lack of compliance is masculine. Act accordingly.

Get her out but tell her to bring her friends. If she does, esculate with both.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Oh I know. That’s a good story. I’m getting to the point where nothing surprises me with women these days.

She knows how to get ahold of me.

100% but burn sets to the ground. Same either #s, ig, leads, etc. I prefer to next but you would be surprised at the amount of action you can get off semi dead leads. These girls are jumping off the d like Tarzan on a vine. They are broken and right for the taking. Not wifey. Not play house. Pump and dump. Hit and run like a crash test dummy.