we usually contact each other on msn. we exchanged numbers last week when she asked me if i was available to meet for coffee on sunday or/and monday. she'll be staying at a hotel in the city. should i call her on friday/sat or should i wait for her to contact me?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
girl with bf wants to meet sunday..
- Thread starter chance-
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
let her contact you. make the date for sunday... v-day. happy hr drinks (not coffee), "romance atmosphere, etc. get her buzzed, and you will wind up in her hotel rm bed.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
I'd let her contact me. She's the one w/ the dude. Just be careful and do not make one of the biggest mistakes known to man: "wining and dining" the next man's lady!!! Do not spend a nickel on her and bang her on behalf of "sosuave.net". Lolchance- said:
If a woman already has a boyfriend, and she welcomes other guys to "take her out" it is either one of two things:
1) She wants to cheat, or
2) She wants to be spoiled
Do NOT help her with #2. Be bold, bad @ss and fulfill her dreams of being smutted.
not like i have any money anyway. lol. but my plan was to have a drink (coffee) i dont drink alcohol... and neither does she. .. anyway, have a drink, small talk.. ask her to show me her hotel room. get her to sit on the bed.. start to massage her back (which almost always works!) and then start layin some kisses on her neck while shes laying on the bed with her back to me.
getting her to show me her hotel room is a good sign right!? if she didn't wanna hook up she'd tell me no yea?
update
Basic Information
Interested In:
Women
Men
Looking For:
Dating
A Relationship
- on her facebook
hopefully it's not a mistake
getting her to show me her hotel room is a good sign right!? if she didn't wanna hook up she'd tell me no yea?
update
Basic Information
Interested In:
Women
Men
Looking For:
Dating
A Relationship
- on her facebook
hopefully it's not a mistake
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
IF she takes you to her room,she's down for sex. She is in a strange town with a strange man[on purpose]. She's looking for strange,as long as you don't blow it too badly,it will be you
i didn't post it to show off. i'm being serious... would it be weird if i asked this girl im currently seeing (is that better?) to drop me off to meet the other girl cause shes going up that way anyway. instead of taking a one hour train trip.Blank said: