we usually contact each other on msn. we exchanged numbers last week when she asked me if i was available to meet for coffee on sunday or/and monday. she'll be staying at a hotel in the city. should i call her on friday/sat or should i wait for her to contact me?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
girl with bf wants to meet sunday..
- Thread starter chance-
- Start date
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Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
let her contact you. make the date for sunday... v-day. happy hr drinks (not coffee), "romance atmosphere, etc. get her buzzed, and you will wind up in her hotel rm bed.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
I'd let her contact me. She's the one w/ the dude. Just be careful and do not make one of the biggest mistakes known to man: "wining and dining" the next man's lady!!! Do not spend a nickel on her and bang her on behalf of "sosuave.net". Lolchance- said:
If a woman already has a boyfriend, and she welcomes other guys to "take her out" it is either one of two things:
1) She wants to cheat, or
2) She wants to be spoiled
Do NOT help her with #2. Be bold, bad @ss and fulfill her dreams of being smutted.
not like i have any money anyway. lol. but my plan was to have a drink (coffee) i dont drink alcohol... and neither does she. .. anyway, have a drink, small talk.. ask her to show me her hotel room. get her to sit on the bed.. start to massage her back (which almost always works!) and then start layin some kisses on her neck while shes laying on the bed with her back to me.
getting her to show me her hotel room is a good sign right!? if she didn't wanna hook up she'd tell me no yea?
update
Basic Information
Interested In:
Women
Men
Looking For:
Dating
A Relationship
- on her facebook
hopefully it's not a mistake
getting her to show me her hotel room is a good sign right!? if she didn't wanna hook up she'd tell me no yea?
update
Basic Information
Interested In:
Women
Men
Looking For:
Dating
A Relationship
- on her facebook
hopefully it's not a mistake
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sodbuster
Master Don Juan
IF she takes you to her room,she's down for sex. She is in a strange town with a strange man[on purpose]. She's looking for strange,as long as you don't blow it too badly,it will be you
i didn't post it to show off. i'm being serious... would it be weird if i asked this girl im currently seeing (is that better?) to drop me off to meet the other girl cause shes going up that way anyway. instead of taking a one hour train trip.Blank said: